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I want my girlfriend back but she'll be hurt by what I've done on our break.

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Question - (6 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2008)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *auralovescake54 writes:

Basically, I had a girlfriend for a year and a half.. We were truly in love, i've cheated twice on her before with another girl though.

Then things weren't working out and I broke up with her, hooked up with the girl i've been cheating on her with again. Now i want to get back with my old girlfriend, but i cant tell her what had happened because it would break her so much! I really want to get back with her though... and if i go ahead and tell her what happened not only will she be extremely hurt, but the girl i've been hooking up with wont ever talk to me again and i'm really good friends with her. I don't know what to do.

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A female reader, michele21 United States +, writes (7 November 2008):

michele21 agony aunti agree with the anonymous answer i have a girlfriend i been with for 3years yea we have had our ups and downs and i never cheated on her but when we broke up i did sleep with other females and even one male....i suggest if you love her and you want it to work you have to be honest honesty is the best policy she will be hurt but if she truley loves you she will forgive you in time and realize how much she really does love you for being honest with you...for you friend you been cheating with if she doesn't talk to you anymore thats on her she has to respect you love your ex and you wanna make things right or else she wasn't a true friend in the first place maybe she really wants to be with you but i don't know i can only give advice i've been in your situation..good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008):

First of all you dont deserve your old girlfriend. why go out with her if you are still going to cheat on her? if you truly love her, you would let her move on.

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