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writes:I really need some help i've been with my partner for five years and i love him, i really do. Recently i've started talking to his cousin online and i really like him we talk and text alot and i like him. I pretty sure he doesn't like me like him and just wants to be friends. I think about my parterns cousin alot and am always happy when he texts me. I don't want to be with him but does the fact i'm texting other people no matter who they are mean i don't want to be with my partner.I'm so confused.
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reader, Asked Angel +, writes (16 November 2008):
Asked Angel is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi guy's just a quick update on what's going on with me. I thought about what eveyone said most of which i new already. I cut all contact with cousin and thought about what i want/need. I left my partnter and it lasted 12 hours before i relised i'd made a huge mistake. I went home and told my partner how i feel and things had to change. He agreed and we are working on things. The whole cousin thing was just a distraction for me so i didn't have to face what i didn't want to know. Thanx for all the advice it really does help.xxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, Asked Angel +, writes (7 November 2008):
Asked Angel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi guy's
Thank you so much for helping me. You have both said what i was already thinking but needed someone else to say. I'm trying hard to kill the feelings and be friends. My crush has done nothing wrong and has no idea i feel like this. I'm hoping this will just burn itself out. I do relise things need to change but just working out how.
Thanks again xxx
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reader, blackroses2989  +, writes (7 November 2008):
 Honey my advice to is, dont persue it. You can be friends by all means but if you love your partner then stay with him. My guess is you only like his cousin because you feel the same way you did when you met your current b/f. It may just be because its a feeling you havent felt in awhile. Try to spice it up with your partner so that you feel that "new love" spark in your relationship. A lot of people fall into this situation. Just kill it quick and dont let it get out of hand, especially if you want to stay with your partner.
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reader, Mandy7777 +, writes (6 November 2008):
Dear Confused....
Just the mere fact that you are interested in someone else sends a signal that all is not well in your current relationship.
Somehow, your needs are not being met if you find it necessary to seek other companionship.....
I would stop talking with this other guy and focus on what you already have first.....If that doesn't work out...then, move on....
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