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writes:Ive been working in virgin megastores for over a year now, started when I was 17 and am now 18. Ive also worked with a girl for that year as well...at first there was no attraction physically, but as ive gotten to know her ive become mad about her! we get on really well, always playing with each other and have had a sense of us flirting as well. Ive never had these kind of feelings for a girl before even ones that I was in a relationship with before. but heres my problem, she is 23. Do you think it would be wrong for an 18 year old to be seeing a 23 year old? Even if she didnt want to go out with me how would I go about telling her how I feel about her, I have to let her know how I feel its tearing me up inside not being able to express my feelings to her!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008): I don't see that there would be anything wrong with it at all!
Tread gently. Don't simply blurt out that you'd like to get into her knickers- no matter how subtly you might say it.
You appear to be on friendly terms so why not ask her if she'd like to go for a meal at the pub one evening to celebrate your budgie's birthday or whatever. Friendship first, courtship later. If she's interested, any relationship will develop natuarally. You'll know you're in with a chance if she accepts, and even more so if she later invites you out for a meal to celebrate her cat's birthday.
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (6 November 2008):
 There is nothing wrong for you dating a 23 yesr old in my opinion. I guess you should tell her how you feel but be confedent about it. Invite her out when you can. When you tell her that you have feelings for her, try and be relaxed.
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