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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello,I'm 21 this year and he's 22. We got to know each other through a particular class which required project work and we happened to be in the same group.Eventually, a month later or so, I started noticing him and liking him, which I have told him. He would frequently come over to my dorm and study or just hang out with me. On two occasions he did sleep over because of how late the project meetings gotten, and we did kiss and cuddle (no touching yet). Before that, he did tell me about his ex-girlfriend whom he hasn't gotten over with yet. Nonetheless, after I asked him about what did the kiss meant to him and if he liked me, he said that it meant alot to him as he doesn't go around kissing and hugging girls but he isn't sure if he likes me and said that time might change things yet no guarantees. I left it at that. We continued hanging out in lectures and classes, talking and basically just having fun. He did come over once to help with my assignment and upon completion, we did end up just resting and he initiated a kiss and touched me sensually. This happened thrice yet we did not talk openly about it. I did ask him why did he start kissing me and he said that because he likes me. He did ask why I liked him even though he's not the best guy around and I asked him why does he like me too. He gave the answer, "Because you're funny."I'm quite confused as to where I stand right now. Opinions please.
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (6 November 2008):
He isnt being clear with you, he hasnt told you how much he likes you, and if he has it doesnt sound like hes making a proper move on you. Sounds like he doesnt know what he wants himself, maybe theres someone else in the piture. I would stay clear or give him some space. Maybe he will come to you if you back off.
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