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female
age
36-40,
*ndamaged
writes:I am with this girl and her ex is still in the picture she won't leave her alone My girlfriend said it's done between them but then the next hour here comes all the drama. What the hell should I say or do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008): It's not up to you to take care of it -- it's up to your girlfriend. Whatever the unwanted behavior, it's between your girlfriend and her ex. Regardless of what she says, if your girlfriend won't resolve things with her ex so that one way or another the ex ceases the unwanted behavior, then either a) your girlfriend needs to step things up a notch (e.g. change phone numbers, create a spam filter so that the ex's emails get automatically deleted, get a restraining order, whatever) or b) things aren't really over between them. Keep your eyes open -- don't see just what you want to see. This is definitely something that your girlfriend needs to take care of.
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