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Has anyone else ever dated their ex boyfriend's ex girlfriend?

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Question - (6 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *rincesscharming09 writes:

I apolqize in advance for being long....

But has anyone else ever dated their ex boyfriend's ex girlfriend? Because not too long ago I became comfortable with my sexuality and my ex boyfriend's ex girlfriend that he dated after we broke up knows that i'm bi-curious and started flirting with me.

I was with my first girlfriend at the time but I broke up with her and got over her with my ex's ex. We began to hang out and we fell instantly. Then out of no where her and our ex are going to their homecoming together. She tells me they're just friends, but her friend tells me they've been acting like more than friends. She told me she wanted space so I finally asked her if it was because someone else whas making her so unsure about us. She denied it but I knew she was lying. I could feel it, I knew they were talking. She tells me she can't decide between me or him. Then she tells me that she's decided she isn't going to be with me or him because she can't choose because her heart will still linger for the one she didn't choose. All my friends and my sister keep telling me I don't need to put up with it, but I've never loved anyone this much. She still wears my ring, sleeps in my tshirt, and says she loves me to this day. She told me today that she needs me. She still doesn't know what she wants. Should I wait for her to make up her mind or should I move on already?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008):

My god leave her she is playing you for a muppett say to her that i love you but im not being treated like something you just stepped in. I know it will be hard just think their is someone who wants to be with you and only you and will not want to PLAY GAMES.I hope it works out Good Luck xx

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