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female
age
36-40,
*ubblygirl
writes:I dont know how to talk to this guy. Any suggestions?He's been distant recently. We did have a past and I found out he's a player and I only want to be friends, but he will randomly ignore me then talk to me. Lately, he's ignored all my texts and my messages to him online in the past week. I understand people are busy, but it takes less than a minute to respond to a text, so he has no reason why he cant say something back. I dont know how to ask him though. because he's done this before and I casually said "hey, why dont we talk much anymore?" by texting him, and I later found out that he complained to my friend saying that I was annoying him by asking, so he lied and told me he was "busy". Once again, it doesnt take that much time to text back.So how do I ask him a better way so that he knows Im not trying to push, but just to ask the reason for his distant behaviour?
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reader, bubblygirl +, writes (2 November 2008):
bubblygirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI understand, I wasnt sure, I had an idea that he is a jerk and likes to play people. He's like a chameleon in the fact that he acts how other people WANT him to act, but I guess, he just really doesnt care what I think anymore. Thank you for your opinion, I will do my best to move past him and all thats happened
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