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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:You date someone for over a year, they lie to you, you finish with them, they manipulate you back many times. You dont trust them again though. Its all a mess and you know it wont work but they always tell you it will. Eventally you end it for good and stick to your guns even though they pester you, you stay strong, and 6 months on they finally leave you alone when they meet someone new. Then its all cushty.Then near on a yr later you see one of their long term mates that you only met twice that didn't like you because of the up n down relationship, in your local pub, and blames you for it. And they say you're the psycho, after they apologise for judging you back then because them and your ex are mates.We are on talking terms, and its fine but apparently i'm the psycho and it was all my fault. This pub is quite close nit and a neighbourhood local.What do you do?
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reader, vamp-gal +, writes (2 November 2008):
 Well, your exes mate is proabaly just trying to stick up for him because thats what mates do, they have their friends back, no matter what. The best you can do is just ignore his comments, it's not his buisness to get involved with yours and your exes relationship which ended about a year ago, especally now he's moved on anyway. If it were me I'd just ignore him, if it gets out of hand, obviously defend yourslef, he can't keep making comments like this forever.
Hope things work out okay.
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