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*onesSoda
writes:I'm just going to jump straight into this. My boyfriend of three years and I have recently split. It was a mutual thing, we weren't getting on so decided to end it. The things that's bugging me is that on the same day we decided to end our relationship, he added this woman onto his Facebook. Straight away he sent her a message asking how she was and stuff and gave her his number. They've been chatting for about a week and he's saying he's in love with her already. I mean I'm not a jealous ex, but mutual decision or not, I thought that he would have waited a while before he started seeing anyone else. He's acting like these last three years meant nothing to him. Sould I talk to him about it or just leave him to it?Thanks for any answer. x
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (3 November 2008):
 Hi Soda,
I agree with the other replies here. Concentrate on yourself for the time being. I wrote an article on this here at dearcupid.org. Have a look, it might be able to help you.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-get-over-your-ex.html
Good luck!
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (3 November 2008):
honey i hate to say this, but once you have broken up from a guy, whether it is mutual or one sided, he and you can see whoever you want to. it's just something you have to except. you can't talk to him about his new relationship, as it is non of your business anymore. if he decides to tell you about it then fine, but do you really want to know anyway?
the quicker you move on the better you will feel.
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reader, JonesSoda +, writes (2 November 2008):
JonesSoda is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey, thanks for that :)
I'm working on it right now. Blasting I'm-over-you songs, and deleting all traces of him.
I think I just needed someone to tell it how it is and hit me with reality! Or something like that, ha ha.
Thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008): Well if the breakup was mutual...or you sure the last three years meant something...he may care for you...but wants to experience new things...he was probably excited about his new freedom...and there's no law that says that he has to wait before he sees anyone else...it just sounds like you are not happy because he has moved on so quickly.
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