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writes:Hi eveyrone, just a short one really, when my ex bf left me for the mother of his child to try and work things out, everything was ok, but now shes got back with an ex - not my ex bf. my ex and her went down the pub the other day, and I told the barmaid that if you see my ex and her together not to mention it as it will cause problems, but thinking about it is that he always talks to me on the phone now.He hasnt mentoned what has happened between her, but why has he been talking to me when at first he told me to ring every other day? It all seems really strange. My mate said he hasnt mentioned it, as he realises what he has lost with me? please help me, my minds so messed up.
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reader, silvermist3  +, writes (2 March 2009):
Okay, this could be very hard for you. I am in the other spot, I'm the ex with the kids. From my point of veiw the guy wants both of you. If you keep talking with him, he will keep bounceing back and forth between you and her. All of the relationships that have a baby mama in them, that work out with others, he would have to stop talking to her and talk only of the kids for it to work out with you. It is impossible for him to have 2 relationships, but he will want his cake and eat it to. I would suggest to keep him at a distance and see if he can make up his mind.
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