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anonymous
writes:I've been with my fiancee for a while now; we're getting married in a couple of years (purposeful long engagement due to money constraints, moving, etc.) I lvoe him to death. I can't see myself with anyone but him. However lately I jsut haven't been feeling sexual at all. I have no libido, not desire to play, no nothing. I feel really guilty about this, and I suppose that makes the entire scenario worse. My fiancee is being really supportive, and although he's a patient person, I can tell that he gets frustrated at times. Lately I've been under a lot of stress (I was unemloyed for a month and a half with no income, recently lexperienced the death of a pet, and during my unemployment I hit the bottle a lot. Because of the depression I was experiencing - I also suffer from borderline personality disorder - I didn't eat that much and lost a significant amount of weight (about 15lbs in a few weeks.)I just want to feel something again, and I want my finacee to feel okay as well. Any advice would be fantastic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for you input:) I forgot to mention also that I am taking antidepressants (wellbutrin - no sexual side effects) and I do go talk to someone on occasion (money constraints.)
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