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writes:i started to hangout with my co worker, and eventually started to like her... she had a boyfriend at the time but broke up with him, so we started to go out more.... i was well aware of possibly being the rebound guy, but it seemed so different with her... we were seeing each other for 7 months and i fell in love with her.... i let her know how i felt about her and she let me know how she felt about me... the last month that i hung out with her she began to push me away and be more distant... so i decided to do the same thing... i realized that she was still in love with her ex, and found out that she would hang with him as much as she did with me... i stopped talking to her completely but im still in love with her.. i see her everyday at work and it sucks what do i do...
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reader, Neeraj060  +, writes (8 December 2008):
 "Don't tell me sky is the limit when there is footmarks on the moon"
What I mean is don't loose hope, I know it is hard to digest some realities in life but that's what makes it so more interesting...don't gulp down those feelings for her.
Walk up to her have a talk if she wants to be with you or not..you are not a toy that she can fiddle around with and throw away when she is done.
Let her know that you will be there for better or worse, no matter what happens and give her time to think about it and if she still wants to be with her -ex than try to let go of her..wish her all the best ...
I know it won't be easy but atleast you will know that you tried your best ....
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reader, Anonny  +, writes (8 December 2008):
Unrequited love is a terrible thing!
- I'm kind of seeing a man who was in a long term relationship with the mother of his child. He tells me its over but I know he still has feelings for her and still sees her.
You may be doing the right thing keeping away - but only time will tell if you are meant to be together. - Maybe keep yourself busy - it will help take your mind off her!
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