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Should I ask if she's interested in a relationship?

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Question - (8 December 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 30-35, *phrodite writes:

I just broke up with my boyfriend of about 3 years. I'm a freshman in college, and we are both going in different directions. He's in the AFROTC and I plan on spending the next school year in Leipzig. We were really good friends with this one girl- we got to know her the summer before senior year on a trip we went on to Europe. Then we became better friends as our senior year went by.

She ended up getting me a job at the smoothie place she worked at- so from spring break until the end of summer we worked together a lot. I developed feelings for her while I was still with my boyfriend, and I told her one day over the summer. She said it was weird bc she had them too and had never felt that way towards a girl before (I had though, and decided I'm bi). So we got drunk a couple times over the summer and made out like three times. But on the third time.. things went way further.. and yeah, I cheated on my boyfriend. I've had feelings for her since then

So now that I'm single again, I don't know if I should try to get with her. She goes to college in Pennsylvania and I go to college here in Texas. So I only see her when she comes home for breaks and summer. I'm not even sure how she feels about me anymore, but I still like her. Should I ask if she's interested in a relationship?

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