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Is this kind of behavior acceptable in a serious relationship?

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Question - (8 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 December 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend went out for his guys night out, but I looked at his tex messages and found out that he invited over one of his female friends an later he tex her again saying that saw her at the bar make him nervous like a little kid, I guess he was flirting, then when i confronted him he said, he was just kidding. Is that kind of behavior acceptable in a serious relationship? we lived together and have a baby 5 months old. Is that ok, or should i be concerned?

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A female reader, boo22 United Kingdom +, writes (9 December 2008):

boo22 agony auntYes honey,i agree with the other ladies. Its a definate no no. His explanation is very lame indeed. I'd monitor the situation carefully from now on. Good luck x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008):

That is absolutely unacceptable behavior. He is yours and you are his. It would be one thing to be single and to be kidding in a situation like that. Whenever I hear a man say "I'm kidding", I think of Scarface, when Al Pacino goes crazy in his hottub, yelling at Michelle Pfeiffer (sp?), and when she calls him out on it he says "I was kidding". It's a load of crap and whoever taught men that "I'm kidding" is a way to get out of a sticky situation where they need to take responsibility for their words and/or actions needs a reality check.

Don't let him take that road with you. Boys nights out are fine. Flirting like that, while attached, is not okay.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008):

definately not ok by him describing his reaction to seeing her it seems he has feelings for her

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