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writes:i've been married for 6yrs and i always knew that my husband was into porn but i didn't know how bad til i look into his computer.wow i thought he's really into this.but at frist i thought it was just a guy thing that all guys do this.is it?then about two weeks ago i was going through the pc and i found hat he's now into cybersex with women from the net.and most of the wome he's talking to are very young teens and young adults.i don't know what to do anymore.i'm confused and very upset about this.i was wondering why we really don't have a sex life.could you help me.should i leave him or stay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008): My husband was looking at young teens and actively searching the net for them. I said some harsh things to him but it did make him realise and I totally agree with everything that Ginalolabridga has said!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 December 2008):
 Viewing porn and having cybersex are two very different things. Draw the line in the sand immediately, especially since it is affecting your own sex life. Tell him if he crosses the line again, he's looking at the door. And mean it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): You really need to get out hon. The first step is to make a PLAN. Where to live, finances, support/help from social services...I suggest moving in 1 day. He has some serious mental problems, and he's broken your marriage vows. If there's any chance of hope, he needs to agree to go to a PROFESSIONAL sex councelor. That's the ONLY option to stay.This will be hard, but you will look back and be relieved you gave yourself a 2nd chance at life and love. God Bless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): It is wrong that he's contacting young girls sexually via the net, please talk to him about hits
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reader, jazzy cat  +, writes (8 December 2008):
i cant beleive you would ask this question to stangers?? your husband is looking at under age pornographic material!! he is a liar and a stranger to you!! answer the question yourself. want to be married to a liar and stranger, sex weirdo?????? sorry thats happened to your life but that is really not good!!! so get a grip and get out!!!
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reader, howcomehoney  +, writes (8 December 2008):
 Porn is one thing, cybersex is another... When you say "very young teens", how young are we talking? Like illegal young? Because that's another thing again. I think you and your husband have to sit down and talk about this.
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