A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I love him to death. However, we tend to get into arguments when I am stressed out and have a lot of schoolwork or family issues. I dont like to confront the issue and just really want to get back to my work. I don't always have time for him and I feel like he is just dragging me down, which angers me more. I try to ignore him when i am studying, yet he keeps calling and texting and when i turn eveything off he shows up at my door causing a scene for my neighbors to see. Crying and begging for forgivness. When i do cave and say fine its okay im not mad, he just keeps crying and wants to make up and spend time with me, when frankly I just want to study and excel in school. I feel like i have no sympathy just annoyance towards him. DOes anyone have any advice to how to deal with him :(
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reader, zelgamer +, writes (8 December 2008):
 Be honest with him and let him know exactly whats going on. If you don't want a relationship it's better to tell him now. If you want to try to make it work, then, be honest, and tell him that what he is doing bothers you. Let him know when you are mad, angry, or whatever, and tell him how you deal with it.
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