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male
age
51-59,
*inder
writes:I have been married for two months now. My wife have her own man and have sex, spend together, enjoy the presence her partner for the last 7 years, of which I have no single idea of her such relationship. She too denied having any relation with any one. Some how I fall in love with her and got married. However, i just dicovered that she have 7 years sexual relation with her lover. She also have three - four times sexual relationship with her lover even after agreeing to me. Her lover is still aftering her and she continues to keep in touch with him in my absence. However, due to my pressure, she is turning her back to her ex-lover. She never share her past, but denied any relationship with her lover, in spit of being told to me directly by her lover. However, after investigating I got all facts and details of her sexual relation with proof and evidents, she amits and narrates partially about her sexual relationship with her lover. I am confused whether she really love me or her ex lover. Will she be a faithful woman?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): Leave her, she had her lover for one reason and you for another. You fit the mold for a husband and the other man as the lover she can have fun with. Your relationship started out with a lie and deceit, she will not change, walk away from her and find a relationship that does not start out with a lie and continues on with lies. Next time her lover calls tell him to come and get her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): I cannot believe that an Indian male wants his wife to love him in spite of knowing her past.
While its totally refreshing to see that,I have to point a few things to you.
If she had sex before she met you its a different thing.If she had sex after she agreed to you,that just doesn't seem right.
You have written that her lover directly came and told it to you.A scorned lover is very vindictive.Maybe she fell in love with you and stopped seeing him altogether.Maybe He got angry and being a typical Indian Male bent on seeking revenge from her.
Speak with her.Many problems can be solved by speaking with a person.No one does that any more.
I understand how difficult it would be for you to forgive her.If you really love her(it seems so from the post)you can give her a chance.Ask her to clear up her act.Listen to her side of the story.
If she still doesn't change I am sorry the relationship is doomed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): um...probably not...any person who does that i would never speak to again...
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