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I wish we could be friends again, but how?

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Question - (8 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 December 2008)
A female South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My question is related to a friendship rather than love. My best friend, lets call her "Heartless Bitch" ok, no im kidding.. lets call her "AMY". Her and i have been friends since school (for 7 years) and around 8months ago, we had a huge fight and no longer speak.

We were always really close until she started dating a very possessive guy. She fell madly in love and i thought the 'honeymoon' phase would pass, but i started seeing her less and less. She would dith me to spend time with him etc etc. (although i also did some things i regret- like starting to talk about her behind her back and not be there for her with matters concerning her boyfriend). for about a year we argued and fought constantly until eventually it all blew up and we decided we couldnt be friends anymore.

But here is my problem. I miss her. I saw her in a shopping mall and said hi but she death stared me and walked on. i texted her to tell her that i dont want us to hate each other bcos we really had a fantastic friendship at one point. In the text i asked if she felt the same. She never replied.

Its been 3months since then, and i still miss her.

I dont know whether or not to reach out to her and tell her i miss her. I am afraid she will be a bitch and reject me. But what if she feels the same way and we're both just too proud?

Please help with some advice..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008):

"I am afraid she will be a bitch"

Friends don't call each other names how ever bad their friends are.

They don't talk about their friends behind their back either.

You have broken a cardinal rule of friendship.Let her go.Please don't make the same mistake in your new friendships.you are young.Life is a learning phase.At times,we learn our lessons the hard way.

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