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Archived questions from: 26 September, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Do you think he's using me?

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26 September 2011 (F) - I just wanted some advice, because I really feel like my bf is jst using me. We knew each other really well b4 we went on our first proper 'date' and by the end of it we were snogging. Since then we have had abt 5/6 dates and every time he just ...

How common is it for women to have sex because they think it will help "catch" a guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - I realize this is a very broad question, and every woman is different so there's no single "right" answer, but I'm curious what people's general thoughts are? To what extent do women have sex because they think it will help them catch a guy? I r...

She stops me from confronting individuals that want to date her?

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26 September 2011 (M) - We have related with my girlfriend for a year now at campus. now that i finished my program she alone there, she tells me about people who are asking her for love and that she turns them down. However, she stops me from reacting to those ...

She never invites me to her home any more. Why does she only suggest we "get a room"instead? What's going on?

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26 September 2011 (M) - Let's say you are in a relationship with woman where is has been off and on for years and have been to her place before, in the beginning. but now she moved and told you "she brought a house" and I live out of town but every time I come into town...

I'm the last one to be told anything about his plans. Do I end the casual relationship we've got going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - There's this guy I've been seeing. We aren't official, but have spent the last month and a half or so together. Not long ago I found out, via a mutual friend of both me and him (a friend who does not know we are seeing each other), that he plan...

When is the right time for me to come out as a Cross Dresser? I need help to come to terms with my life.

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26 September 2011 (M) - I am whats classed as a cross-dresser. I want to be able to 'come out' to my parents, to my school mates, to everybody. I am afraid to do this, I have almost told my Mam once or twice, but Dad is so male, that I am afraid to tell him. I need help ...

Has being single so long left me bitter in some way, or maybe desperate seeming?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I've been single for three years. The first year was nice, because I was finding my own life after getting out of a long, young, horribly bad relationship (only one ever). Now I've wanted to be with somebody and have a healthy relationship for year...

Am I in the wrong for not doing it more often or when he asks for oral sex?

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26 September 2011 (F) - hi, my boyfriend and i are both 26 and have been together for four years. We seem to have the same repetitive arguement all the time regarding performing oral sex on him. The thing is i really dont like doing it, so i dont do it often. maybe lik...

Sad part? I don't think he likes me that way. Is it that he just wants to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for quite some times. We are really close and I believe we've known each other for 7 years. Well this year we finally confessed we liked each other and dated for a two months. After we broke up things went back to o...

I cannot ignore my former LDR any more. I took a risk. Was this the right way to reconnect with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Five months ago, I told a long-distance love (I live in LA; he's from San Fran) that I couldn't do it anymore. Mainly, because he would constantly tell me he missed me and wanted to see me, yet wouldn't follow through. Granted, we only dated six ...

Can this be a relationship? He is straight and I am gay. He's a co-worker.

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26 September 2011 (M) - i would like to ask help or advice regarding my relationship to my co-worker. i am so very confused about our relationship because between the two of us there is a mutual understanding between our friendship. probably he knows that i care for him ...

I really do like this girl, but I don't want to be THAT guy. She has a Bf already

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4608 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - So i met this girl at school and i started falling for her. After a couple months of crushing, i found out she had a boyfriend. I tried hard to forget her and move on but it was very hard because I see her everyday. So we started becoming clos...

Has anyone ever felt this way for a potential significant other?

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26 September 2011 (F) - Hi I was wondering if anyone has felt this way or if anyone can make me realize what these feelings were. During my last course in graduate school ( i was 24) I landed in this class; my last class thesis class, before I had to graduate. Either w...

I'm just really hurt and I didn't see it coming. Do I just let her go? I really do like her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - First of all thank you for reading this! So i've been in love with my best friend now for close to two years. We met at a friend's house and we liked each other and went on a few dates. She had just broken up with her boyfriend of two years so she...

I love him. If he was doing his part, would I be cheating? But am I wrong?

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26 September 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together 9 months, known each other 3 years, havent seen each other in 3 months, spoke on the phone once in those 3 months. our primary form of communication is texting. And sometimes we go a week without a text, es...

Too many arguments. is there a way I can get over him without ending the relationship

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26 September 2011 (F) - im worried my boyfriend and I are not going to work out. We argue every single day about stupid things. Im deeply in love with him , and what hurts the most is that this relationship was unexpected. He claims that he's in love with me , and that...

Was he being cruel? why would he give me his friends phone number and not his? why not just say no thanks ?

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26 September 2011 (?) - names have been changed I am doing running crew for a play and i asked one of the cast members(X) if i could buy him coffee sometime , He said sure and i got his phone number but as we were standing there his friend(Z) said that's not his n...

I think I'm falling for my one and only friend! Should I carry on flirting and get my hopes up?

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26 September 2011 (F) - Well i know you probably hear things like this all the time so, ill try and keep it short as possible and thanks for taking the time to read it!. Basically long story short i think i might be starting to really fall for my one and only friend. ...

Long distance? what is truly happening? Is he just trying to break up?

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26 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now and I love him more that I ever thought I could possibly have feelings for another person. During the two years, he was deployed for 9 months and now has moved back home for the last 5 months...

Is she out of love? taking me for granted? it was my birthday 2 weeks ago and she did not plan anything for me

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26 September 2011 (M) - For the past couple months I feel that my girl and I are drifting apart. I feel that I am always trying to hug her or kiss her and it's like she doesn't want it. We have been together only for 2 years now and we barely make love and she comp...

My FWB: I'm starting to like him and I want to know how or if I should let him know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Hello everyone I'm new to this and hopefully will get some advice ... I've been sleeping with this guy for about a year and half I guess we are friends with benefits. Even though he has said he likes me, and one time after sex he told me I was going ...

He's turned it around to try to make me the guilty one!

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26 September 2011 (F) - Here's the thing. I had my boyfriend of nine months. Well about 2 months ago I started noticing little things/clues that were telling me that he was talking to another girl, like a text every so often and he would say it was this app that he has ...