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Archived questions from: 19 September, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Financial crisis! Do you think things will get better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship for about 9 years and newly married 1 year. No children. My husband is 27 Recently, I have been questioning my marriage due to financial concerns. My husband currently does not have a job (he quit the last one in July). ...

He says he's only staying until their child goes off to university

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - The man I love has married his cousin. He says he is only staying with her until their child leaves home for university. Once she has left home he says we can then start to make plans for our future and tell our respective partners, with the ...

Irrational insecurity or something to worry about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Hi all. A couple of things, I suffer from insecurity really badly whenever I am in a relationship and it always pushes my bfs away, they end up leaving. The thing is, a couple of things about my bf worry me and I would just like to know other ...

Losing trust... am I over-reacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

19 September 2011 (?) - Over the weekend my husband got new parts for his computer. He didn't realize he was going to have to re-install his whole operating system and did so without doing a backup. Once it was too late he said, "I bet I lost somethings." But he doesn't ...

How do I trust him again? I don't want to be controlling and jealous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4614 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - so I’m having a problem with my relationship I’ve been with my boyfriend for 10 months he’s perfect well sometimes... I’m very jealous and controlling I honestly want to stop being that way.. I don’t know to tho the reason I’m so jealous is because ...

Should I worry? I can't stop thinking that my boyfriend still talks with his ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - I've never been to a long term relationship like the one i'm having right now. I was always insecure that the guys are cheaters and they will hurt me, so casual sex was pretty much what i was doing. When i men the guy i'm seeing right now i felt v...

Why wouldn't he want me to come with him on this trip? Should I dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - All, my boyfriend and i hv been together for a year. Im 27 and hes 28. Im sometimes jealous and its been a rocky relationship. I dont think he ever cheated but he is a big flirt and has a high sex drive. Now he wants to go on a vacation alone t...

Am I cheater? Is this really that bad? I need help

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - I was in a relationship with the girl of my dreams! She was seriously the most amazing person on this planet and we had so much fun together. I Miss her so much. I would kill for her and die for her in a second. She means the world to me. I wanted ...

For some reason, I'm very insecure and can't trust him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4614 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - okay so me and my boyfriend been together for a little bit more than 4 months and i truley love him.. i knew him before we got together, i love him more than he claims he loves me..For some reason, i cant trust him, he hasnt cheated on me from what ...

Living with boyfriend and his friend... a disaster! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Need honest advice! Please! I am 24 and currently live with my boyfriend of a year (he's about same age) and there's another room which became available over a month ago - so we needed a third house mate. My boyfriend was keen for one ...

Idealistic Love VS Realistic Love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Idealistic love is attraction, intimacy, perfection. Realistic love is attraction AND attachment, intimacy AND commitment and perfection found in imperfection. Everyone wants to be in idealistic love. Fact: It only happens in fantasies, movie...

I love C and he loves me. But what do I do about my best friend A? She'd be mad at me for this

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19 September 2011 (F) - Hi, well I have a problem. Last friday was my school dance and my best friends crush C was there. C told me that A owed him a slow dance,(A likes him but he doesn't like A) but my best friend A didn't show up! Then he said if A didnt show up I had...

I did the right thing by her. But she likes another. How do I cope with this rejection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4614 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - i feel like i did the right thing but it hurts.. i like a girl and we're great friends.. anyways she's telling me how she likes some guy (not me i know who he is) and that she thinks he loves her back.. well i told her what i really know about hi...

Will I lose him? Can LDR work? How do I keep the spark between us alive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4614 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for just under a year and a half. We're completely and utterly in love and have been since the day we met. We were each other's firsts and he hasn't had much luck with ladies before me. That is to say, I'm ...

I'm 34 and he's 23. How can I help him gain sexual confidence despite his erectile dysfunction issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4614 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - I recentely started to date a man, and we are having sex problem. I am 34-yr old woman, very attractive, nice body. I have 2 pre-teens. He is 23-yr old man, single. Very thin. I know that we are very attracted to each other, and very likel...

I'm tutoring her. Am I just falling for her so easily because I'm lonely and I miss my friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4611 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - Dear cupid Well i just started college about three weeks ago and im having a pretty bad time at first. One of the major problems i was having was being alone because about two weeks before i got here me and a close friend decide we want to have ...

Emotionally he seems to be drawing away from me. Why has his interest waned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Hey guys, really need some help here, really getting me down! Ok so basically, i met my boyfriend of eleven months at uni last year. I know this is going to sound so typical and what-not, but during the first few months of our relationship...

Acts like he likes me. But never asks me out. Is "Friend" all I can hope for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - I really like this guy, I thought he liked me too, we text and or phone every single day all day from good morning to night night texts etc, at least 20 texts a day!! It was my birthday two weeks ago and he hasn't even mentioned it, I did tell h...

Can you think the world of someone and not want to be with them ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - If a guy says he thinks the world of you,what does it mean ?.i'm confused as this guy i was seeing said that even after we stopped seeing each other.one of his friends told me that he said that to him after we broke up and another of his friends ...

Urgent. I'm trying to stall my teacher at college. How else should I be handling this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4614 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Hello! Sorry this isn't a relationship question but I am freaking out so bad right now. I am a college freshman and I missed one of my classes on Wednesday. Well one of the classes I missed was Monday too I stalled in calling the teacher / emaili...

Did he ever care? How can I move on from all this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Three years ago my now ex and I broke up. we were from different cultures and religions and he decided that his family would disown him and things could not go further after three and a half years and the best part of our younger days together. Fo...