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Archived questions from: 10 September, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Am I wrong, should my feelings enter into this at all, or am I being selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid; I just ended a relationship with my boyfriend "Jeff" which lasted a little over a year. At the beginning he dumped me via an email saying he was going back to a previous girlfriend. He came back to me when that didn't work out, but it l...

My Bf believes others on my past Bf history. What do I need to do to show my Bf that I am telling the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - ok so i have been dating my bf for about a year and 3 months already and he recently found pictures of an ex boyfriend of mine who had broken my heart 4 months before i met my current bf and someone is telling my bf that my x and me didnt finish ...

I love her but my brain says run. I need help please to resolve serious reservations about this 'situation'.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - I am madly in love and constantly dream about this woman. I cannot get enough of her... But, my brain disagrees. There are real signs that something is really wrong with her... She can't manage money. She cries at the drop of a hat (we can be o...

How do I understand this? our relationship is ok but strained due to her fantasy method of masturbating to photos of her female friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - I caught my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years (we are now sophomores in college, but started dating in high school) masturbating to photos of her female friends from our high school. Long story, but she thought I was still taking a shower one day this ...

Could someone please explain men's choice of porn? Is who they watch the 'look' that really truly turns them on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - So, I really want to understand how a man chooses what porn to watch... my bf watches videos featuring MILFs and latina women, but I am a young (same age as him), Swedish (same nationality as him) girl! Does it mean he prefers older and Latina ...

What criteria do I use to choose which guy? I like them both. They know each other.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - A few weeks ago i met a guy and we've been getting on well and he's been taking me out over the past few weeks and it's been nice and it's obvious he likes me but he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend (I know it's only been a few weeks so i guess ...

Why do I still loved my violent alcohol bully ex whole stole to buy drugs? Yet I still miss him. How do stop my craving for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - We've all been here i know but Im struggling to keep it together. Here it goes. Me and my daughters dad was together 5yrs with a few breaks between. We broke up around a month ago but he still lived in our house until yesterday and i miss him so m...

Now I don't believe that he believes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - Firstly, let me just say that I love my boyfriend of 5 months and cannot imagine myself being with anyone else. The other night I went out with some friends who I havnt seen for like a year. Anyways, I ended up getting so drunk that I can't ...

How can I feel better? I'm sad about the breakup after I refused him more than we were doing sexually,

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I was in sexual relationship with a guy 6 months back. I'm 16 and he is 23. I agreed for sex because I was depressed after my break-up and I wanted to get over my ex. It was online relation. We used to sex chat. We never did it in real. He want...

Can I hope for a relationship with him? He asked me what I thought about him getting back together with his ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I am 33 years old and have been spending time with a gentleman around my same age. A mutual friend introduced us to each other and he indicated to her that he was interested in me...but he was going to take it slow. It's been 4 months since we have...

She's less enthusiastic in bed now. Is My Girlfriend Being Selfish In Bed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - I'm new to this but it has gotten to the point where I need somebody's opinion. I've been dating my girlfriend for close to 3 and half years and I'm very much in love with her. Like most relationships, it was pretty "active" in the beginning and ...

My married lover puts me in awkward situations where I have to meet his wife. Why would he do this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I am having an affair with a married man and have been for over 6 yrs, we are both in our late 50's,we both care for each other very much and get on really well and enjoy seeing each other. we can't break it off so please no moral judgments. i...

Does he sound like someone who could grow up and see me as the girl he could build a life with or should I just forget him altogether?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - Met an american man while I was traveling in africa (i am canadian), dated him for 3 months, "just to have fun". I was 27 and a virgin with a couple of serious past boyfriends, he was 23 and a non-virgin with lots of casual making out/fooling around ...

My family first or him? My family criticize him. So I need to break up but think he'll take it badly

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

10 September 2011 (?) - Hi, I can honestly say that I love my boyfriend. I can honestly admit that I have never feel so much loved before him. However, I am not happy because my family been criticising him in the past few months. His business went down pretty bad. M...

Am I obsessed about her and controlling?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - Hello DearCupid members, Some things to know: * I am a 16 year old male that is madly in love with this really beautiful (well, I think so anyway) woman who is the same age as me. * We have known each other for three years. And I have l...

My husband and I both have fantasies. How can I bring up my fantasy for his consideration?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - A few years ago my husband told me he had a dream of me having sex with a very large woman. We talked and for the first time I admitted to him I always wondered what it would be like and I get turned on watching lesbian porn. I told him how nerv...

I am gay. He flirts with me but also sees girls. What do I need to do, and how, to get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4624 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - I have been in love with my best friend for the best part of three years, Our relationship is THE best... We hang out alot, we do sport together and we are very open with each other, buy I know I should give up and move on but I can't... He is ...

Should I give it a try? And talk to my ex-friend who I was in love with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I lost a great friend four years ago. He wanted to be in a relationship with me and I am sure he knew how much I loved him despite the fact that I tried my hardest to hide my feelings. Then came the time when I had to move out of my home state for ...

How? Is it possible to get my cat back as first priority? And get my ex boyfriend back too?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - Here is a brief paragraph of my situation. My ex and I broke up this month after a year relationship. We had a huge fight during a trip right before (this is our first huge fight, we were basically ignoring each other during the trip). When we ...

I love her . Loved helping her. But she hurts me so much. Does this sound like a relationship with a future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - Hi, So Me (17) and my Gf (14) have been going out for 6 months, I have always done everything I could for her, Bought her games to play when her mum was drunk, Spent weekends out with her. Did everything I could for her. I even managed to get her ...

Is it better to distance yourself or to keep on trying after being rejected by a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - SO i have this friend. I asked her out/told her I liked her and she said that she was not rejecting me but literally had no time to make it work, so it would be unfair to the both of us. She said that maybe in the future something may happen but not ...

I want, need, to be more confident. But how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - Hi, I would like to be more confident around my girlfriend. I always feel so needy around her and i always seem to initiate things from emotional comfort and for sex. Could anyone give me tips on how to be more confident? Thank you...

He will not face me. Why can't some men face you when they break up with you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I need some help. I was dating my BF for 6 months. He just broke up with me via email. Never had one single conversation about anything not working. Tells me I'm wonderful, amazing and he thinks we're just supposed to be friends... but won't talk to ...

He sends nasty messages about me to my workmates. How do I stop my soon to be Ex from ruining my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend (who will very shortly be my ex) is trying to wreck my life. recently he has been very controlling and jealous - for no reason, but now he's just doing evil things to get at me, sending facebook messages to my work colleagues and my ...