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Archived questions from: 5 September, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Why would my ex ask me to the movies after all this time apart if he was clear he does not want to get back together again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, Its my first time writing on here so here goes... im in a really weird situation and need some advice I was with my ex for 4 years in which i found out that he had cheated on me in the first 6 months of our relationship with ...

I don't want to hurt my boyfriend, but I am too weak to resist temptation.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Please help, i am confused. I love my boyfriend, we have been through the most tough times ever, and he has still stuck by me through everything. But, during last year at uni, i slipped into the trap of sleeping with a guy there, on numerous ...

He has cheated on me.What's a girl to do? he asked me "so what are we?" what did he mean by that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Ok im not sure where to start.. all im going to say is i have no idea what the hell im doing. and im 15 that would make sense for that reason huh. Anyways awhile back in Feburary this year i met this guy(22yrs old) online, yeah i know, anyways ...

Is my friend toxic? she seems to nick friends off you. Is she too much trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hi. I have one friend who I spend more time with than anyone else. We were at school together, we’re at uni together and we’re even sharing a house this year. She’s been one of my closest friends since I met her but she can be pretty annoying...

I've got myself into this mess. I slept with my ex. How do I get over this and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Okay, so I now deserve the stupidest person in the world award. I split up with my ex quite a few months ago. I didn't communicate with him at all after that. I've invested so much time in getting over him (it was my decision to break up, we were...

These past few days he's been different. mean to me. How does anyone cope when a boy friend gets like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hello Everyone, I am pretty upset now and don't know how anyone deals/copes with it. Anyways my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 4 years now. We had our ups and downs, never broke up EVER. If we did it lasted like 2 days. These pas...

She will not cook, will not clean. I do it all, so I ask my self the same question every night, "is it worth all of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - I dont honestly have the slightest clue on how to piece all of this together but here we go.. Just a little bit of information about my self before we start, i seem to think way too much into things, but i never actually express the way i feel v...

I'm newly single. Should I wait in case my ex and I can get back together? Or go with this new girl now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I have been in love with this girl for five years, and now she has left me saying she can no longer take the fights we generally have. And so i let her go thinking she might really be facing real trouble. And i wasn't even thinking of anyt...

Don't want to do anything stupid. Should I tell my "friend" that I like his girlfriend, but I'm not going to act on my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - so im in love with my "friend's" girlfriend and have been since february. I just want to be with her so much and everytime i speak or talk to her i just want to kiss her. we are quite good friends and talk very often. we text and facebook. i told...

Why, when I reach out to her does she still blank me out? Seems I cannot do anything right with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - I suspect the possible answers to this one, but just want to be sure. A friend of mine, not spoken to her since July, I made all the effort, it wasn't given back. I sent her a letter last week as I heard it was an anniversary that wasn't too p...

Am I expecting too much from him? five years into our relationship and still he remains at the beck and call of his ex and others.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my partner for over 5 years. Lots of difficulties have came from his ex wife, daughter, his mother and his mother's friend. I have struggled to understand why. I can see clearly now that these 4 women have had ...

He has no trust in me. He says it's because he is scared of losing me. But is this the best I can expect? It makes me sad.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hello Cupid, I am 20 years and i have been dating the love of my life for over 4 years. He is my age and we have been going to school together. However, i feel confused of late. He is a very nice guy the kind of guy who will never cheat on you...

Will this couple make it? Interested in your opinion, in view of their myriad of differences?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I'm asking this question purely out of curiosity. What are the chances of a couple (one of them being a relative of mine) making their relationship work the second time around if she ended the relationship the first time because her bf tried to ...

But what can I do to make this consuming jealous feeling go away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4628 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been in a long distance relationship for almost three years on and off. i feel like i constantly have these insecurities that eat me up inside. i try not to show them because i don't want to push him away. but he has this...

He says I'm immature and selfish. Am I being unreasonable by being upset that his family exclude me from family events but invite his ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hi. I have been involved with my boyfriend for 13 years now and we have one child. He has been divorced for the past 14 years. The problem is his ex wife. My boyfriend has refused to marry me in the past citing his family doesn't like me. Aft...

My alarm bells are ringing. Do my suspicions about this guy seem on target?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - There was a guy who I had in a couple of my university classes with me. We would talk in class and during breaks and stuff, and he seemed interested in me. So one day he asked if we could do something together. Mind you, he never gave me his number ...

How do I get some balance back into our friendship? my friend is obessive and possesive of our other friends. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4627 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - so my friend lets call her J is being super possesive of our other friends lets call them JC n A. Everyday J has to call JC n A who are sisters to see what they are doing. J textes them like crazy. Always wanting to know where they are at and if ...

What do I need to do? I'm worried and broken hearted over our falling out. She means so much to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4628 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - my bestfriend for 3yrs. Yet we got into a heated argument over a lie someone else told.. She and I have only slept together 2 times in those 3yrs.As a guy, i have more respect her than that. Yet no matter what i say, she won't believe me. My heart...