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Archived questions from: 9 September, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

We got heavily drunk and now we can't remember anything from that night!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - I was out recently, got heavily drunk and went home with a girl. I have never had sex before and the last thing I remember was sitting on her couch saying “I’m going to go to sleep”. I woke up the next morning on top of her friend’s bed (in her ...

We broke up a month ago and finding out he may be in a new relationship hurts me so much. What can I do to stop this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for about one month. He basically dumped me because he said we were having problems. We were together for four years. Now I sometimes go on his myspace page ... I guess because I really miss hi...

Should I tell him I made a mistake for breaking up or should I just try to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - seven months ago i broke up with my bf coz he wasnt paying atention 2 me. since then i havent been able 2 date,am stil madly in luv wit him. i think abt him a lot n it is very painful coz i dont think he misses even though he calls me once in a ...

How do I cope with my husband's reaction to my past?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I met my husband when I was 17. I told him I was a virgin but I wasn't. Below is the story. Its a bit long but you need to understand the circumstances. Please bear with it I really need some good advice. At just 16, I met a 23 year old guy ...

These girls that hate me for no reason have been filling his head with stuff! What's going on with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - In order to answer this question, you have to read this one: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-no-clue-what-hes-thinking-does.html Okay, today something else happened. A few weeks ago, I wrote a blog on my myspace and there are 4 gir...

How can I aproach this guy and talk to him without sounding desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - okay.... please help im getting insane ! hahahaha okay, im 16 and i talk to guys .. but not really... people see me as shy when talking to guys... there's this guy tho... he's in my resistance training class and OMG, i like want him soo bad....

What can I do to stop worrying about my boyfriend's fidelity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Ok well I met this guy.. I fell in love.. Usual stuff really! Well he's been distant with me lately... And he is on holiday and not even texting me... Oh he is in the saem country so he can it is possible... And I know it is also possible that he is ...

What are his reasons behind joining this website?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - i had a child with a man who i not only loved but who i thought wanted to be with me and our daughter as a family. I have found out that after we split up he went on an adult websight and has ticked boxes in which he has said he is looking for ...

Should I tell my sister what her husband did to me when I was younger? Or should I just tell him to stay away from my children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - When I was about 11 my sister's husband touched my breasts and asked me if I "want to have some fun and games". I knew instantly that this was wrong and said NO and moved away from him. He then said he was just joking and didnt mean anything by it. ...

She told me she only kissed him but I don't believe her. Should I give her another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - i went out for town for the weekend and when i came back my wife said we needed do talk about our relationship. she said she loved me but was not in love with me and had no attraction to me any more. i was shocked and did not see this coming, ...

Would I do right if I tell her husband about her cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - I am Divorced and live alone, I met a married women in a local pub and asked her to call for a coffee one day when I wa off work, As she was married I was suprised one day when she turned up at my door. We chatted for a while and nothing happened ...

Am I wrong for feeling upset about him looking at porn?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I don't know if it's just me or not but i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 months and i found out that he was looking at porn on the interent when we first starting dating and a few times after that, I know its normal but it gets me quite ...

Is this man leading me on or does he really want to meet me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I am 39 years old and have 3 children, im seperated but i have been chatting to a man in scotland for over 6 months now on the internet. We have spoken on the phone and seen each other on web cam, we talk for hours every night. He has 3 grown up ...

Am I just a sex buddy for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Hi, Please help me understand what a fuck buddy is and to clarify if my "boyfriend" is actually a fuck buddy. I met him about three months ago and he's been so busy with his work and business. I see him twice a week and sometimes once. Becau...

My boyfriend would rather be with his friends than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, we're engaged to get married, anbd we live together. We both work FT jobs. We keep fighting about his friends. He would rather hang out with them then me. He has ditched me on several occasions for his ...

He has been looking at porn since I got pregnant! How do I aproach him about this issue?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for just over a year. We dated for four years before deciding to get married. We seemed to be on the same page about all the big decisions, including having children young. I am now almost 6 months pregnant. I ...

Should I confront my boyfriend about what he did to me while I was drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Last weekend I got drunk on my boyfriend's farm. I remember very little execpt for the part where I think he raped me. I remember being in the bathroom and him coming in behind me and making me lay on the floor. I told him I wanted to go back ...

What can I do about this person who is trying to blackmail me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Ok I'm a married bad girl. I've cheated on my husband 6 times over the last 4 years. I know I am wrong and I know I am bad. I've had intercourse with one of those people, the others I've just fooled around with and the last one that I’ve fooled a...

He told his girlfriend what I said to him! What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - This guy at work and I were attracted to each other. So as to cut thru the crap I came out and told him that I wanted to have sex with him, which we never did. Now he has a girlfriend (she works there too) and I think he told her what I said to ...

Retroactive Jealousy: how do I overcome it?

This question has 69 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Right, so I am not even really sure how to start this. Basically, I suffer from what many other men (and few women) seem to suffer from as well. Retroactive Jealousy, or "her past"... Its horrible, its utterly disturbing and self destructive. I have ...

Did I do the right thing by telling on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (?) - I have a guy friend who trust me with everything also he gets in trouble a lot! One day when I got to school, I found out that some of windows had broken with a baseball bat. Well, he told me he hates the school and he did it. I couldn't handle the ...

Should I consider his odd behavior as cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Is this considered cheating? Or am i overreacting? This guy I like/liked and have a past with still talks to me a lot even though he used me and lied to me while seeing other girls. Now he has a new girlfriend but she moved to another province...

My ex want to have dinner with me but he already has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Ex once asked if I want to have dinner with him and his new girlfriend. I refused. yestoday I received his sms asking if i would like to have dinner with him for my birthday couple of days after and just him and I. I refuse him saying not want to ...

Does he really like me or is it just too much too soon and too good to be true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I went to Spain recently on holiday and have met a man that I could really fall in love with. After having a string of negative possessive relatiosnhips and also having a very unaffectionate family background it was a breath of fresh air for me as I ...

He suddenly cut me off from his life! I thought we had something special and I'm deeply hurt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - How do you deal when a friend w/benefits breaks-up with u via email and gives no reason. I'm in a world of hurt? Is it normal for me to feel depressed, suicidal, and devastated being dumped over email with no explanation? I dont date a lot. I...

Why do I want to stay with this guy even though he cheats?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - so ok i know this is bad i mean real bad but ive dated this guy for a long time....but after our anniversary i found out he was cheating on me, and i know theres the phrase once a cheater always a cheater but i still love him alot and me and him and ...