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Archived questions from: 7 September, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Is it ok if an eight-year-old masturbates?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I been babysitting all my life since i was 16. I baby sit this 8 yr old girl she's Always wanting Privacy. One Day I was Baby sitting Just her cause the other went to spend the night with grandparents. well One Day i was down stairs Doing some ...

My girlfriend is jealous for me looking at nudity in (not-porn) movies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I've been dating a girl for 6 months, and we have had a good relationship, however she gets extremely jealous and can't stand that I've seen movies or anything with nudity in them. I'm not talking about porn, I don't watch it because I only want to ...

Why do I always end up being just the friend?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - in the last two years ive come across girls who ive like or fancied. but it always turns out that im just a shoulder to cry on, and they decide to get back with their ex boyfriends even though they've told me the think im fit and they wanna go out ...

Is there any hope for me to get her back or have I been put in the friend zone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - Long story short, I went out with this girl for a month, and eventually she broke it off stating she liked me more as a friend and she wasn't ready for a serious relationship. A couple of months pass and we stay friends. And she starts behaving ...

Is he cheating on her or did they really break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Lots of advice on this welcome. I split up with my ex a year ago and he met someone else. I have a daughter with him and still have feelings for him. We email each other because he works away and for different reasons i had an inkling that he has ...

Why didn't he smile when I took the picture?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - On August 30th, I went up to take my boyfriend to the Mud Drags and my mom had asked for me to get a picture of my boyfriend and his dad, so I did and he asked if I was going to get one of me and him and I said "Yes, before we go." I forgot but took ...

He seems undecided about what he wants from me. Should I keep on waiting or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I have been with this guy for almost a year we both live in different parts of Canada. I tend to have high expectations of men, and he tends to be a workaholic and has a relaxed nature. In the beginning things were great, he called everyday...

Is this just a silly crush or should I do something about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - At my work theres a new guy that has been spending an awful lot of time hanging around me. Hes very nice and respectful and has been flirting with me quite a bit lately. He absoultely gorgeous and i cant get him out of my head. I get so flustered ...

Why do women always want their men for themselves only, if it's known that men like "variety"?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) - Hello, I've noticed a lot of porn related questions from females lately. The age-old question is "Why does he like to look at other women when he has me?". And the answer is difficult... Well, now I have a less common question. I'm a woman m...

Why after I told him we should only stay friends because I saw him with no interest did he go back to flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Met this guy went on a great date talked about two to three times a week then the phone calls and texts just stop (we were seeing eachother for a couple of months). After a week of no contact i called it off and he said it would be a shame if we ...

She said she didn't date on the summer... yet she went out with two boys at that time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - There is this girl i like we have been talking for 6 months i asked her out in the 3rd month but she said she didnt date in the summer but she went out with 2 other guys before school started she said she was still in love with me after 6 months and ...

He's the love of my life but he doesn't trust me. Should I give up on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) - Hey... I'm so sad. I wish to stay single... I don't know, but after all that's been going on with my relationship, I feel un-confident... See, my boyfriend has problems with my past. Even though I never sletp with anyone before him, he think...

No matter what I do he still doesn't trust me. What can I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - We've been together for 5 months now. I spent 3 solid months with him in America, and I've got my next flight there booked. This is the first time we've been apart. He's very hateful, jealous and paranoid. He doesn't like to socialise, he do...

Why does my boyfriend deny he has watched porn with all the evidense on his face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - i kee finding evidence of porn viewed on my partners pc but when i confront him about it he adamantly denies it, when it is blatantly obvious! we are from different countries which has meant that we have been apat for months at a time! please ...

Letter to my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Dear M I hate the way you came back into my life like a whirlwind, then left again just as fast I hate the fact that both times it was for another woman I hate myself for being so stupid to have given you another chance in the first place...

I know it's wrong but I just can't resist this man. Please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - hi I hope i am nt bothering u much with my promblem u anwered my question on 26th august which had a heading "what happen to my romantic life"....?I just wanted your valueable suggestion on my lastest situation, I tried to keep this man away fro...

My wife isn't attracted to me anymore and cheated on me, can we make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - my wife(together 5 years married oe year)says she isent attracted to me anymore, and that she loves me but isnt in love with me and had felt that way for a long time. i knew we had our differences but i did not see this coming. i asked her if there...

Everytime I try to explain things to her she accuses me of calling her slutty.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - Hello everyone! Ok so my ex an i broke up like a month and a half ago due to long distance, (she decided she didnt love me anymore). Anyways she was the love of my life and always made me feel good with comments about wanting my children and ...

Am I Stupid or What. I really need all your opinions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Am I Stupid or What. I really need all your opinion? I've been seeing this guy for 7 months now and he lives in Sarasota and I'm in Ft.Lauderdale. I met him down here and when he was here he never wanted to leave my side. Eventually he told me he wa...

I used a fake id to ask my bf if he had a girlfriend and he kept saying no!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Hi!! i have a botfriend but i ws not so sure if he took things with me seriously so i kinda decided to check things out myself. so i made a fake id and added him as another girl.And i asked him out on that id. He told me(thinking i was the other gi...

How can I stop gettin jealous and paranoid???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now. He's really good to me and i love him alot. The only problem is i cant trust him at all, even though he gives me no reason not to trust him. I think this is because ive been hurt so much in the ...

She's suddenly incredibly insecure! How can I fix it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - Hi. My girlfriend and I have a great relationship in almost every way. We have been together since we were 17, and we have never broken up. I love her more than anything, she is the most beautiful person inside and out. But there is one problem we ...

We still want to love, but where did it all go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a girl for three-and-a-half years. We fell in love from the start. It was freshman year in high school during a school trip to Disney. We are the longest remaining relationship from our school and were voted High ...

What can I do to give him a great blow job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Hey I have a few concerns tht id really like some advice on. I've been with my boyfriend for about a month now, but ive had feelings for him for sometime. Recntly I gave my boyfriend and hand job and he did the same to me and then peformed oral sex ...

I just can't get through her! What else can I do for her to see what a wonderful person she is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) - she doesnt have poor self esteem...she has no self esteem. no matter what i say or do she thinks she is the lowest being on earth. ive told her how great of a person she is and how beautiful she is on a regular basis, trying to help her out, but it ...

I need tips on how to be better at sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I'm seeing this guy and I think we might have sex soon. I'm only had sex with one guy previously and I wasn't that great at it. I wasn't sure what to do when on the bottom and I REALLY didn't know what to do when I was on top. I'd like to actually ...

My mom's boyfriend cheated on her with me. I don't know what to do in this situation but I don't want her to be with a guy like him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I have this problem and I'm not sure how to handle it. I'm gay. I came out years ago and my family have always been cool about it since they saw it coming. My mother especially as I always stood by her and helped her through a divorce to my father. ...

How can I ask her out when I have never done this before?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I am a freshman in high school and i have a crush on this girl who was in my class last year. We never really had a conversation but we do know each other. Also she is nice to me but she kind of acts this way to everybody so I cant tell what her ...

My wife freaked and left me, when she found this other woman's business card! I would never cheat..how do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) - A co worker gave me their business card by putting it in my front shirt pocket (I'm a waiter). She wants to cover a shift of mine. I get home and I put the card on the counter and leave to pick up my wife. When we get home, I take her jacket and put ...