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Archived questions from: 8 September, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I'm being ignored by someone I'm trying to love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - To Anyone Who Can Offer Prospective: I recently moved to a new state about 700 miles away to attend graduate school. I've felt pretty lonely here, where I had come from before I was a social butterfly who had friends anywhere I'd go, which has ma...

Why does he bring stuff from my past we agreed to forget whenever we fight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 5 years. We went through a lot over a year ago. Everything has really been good and everything, but every time we get into an argument, my mistakes are brought up. Some happened a year ago, some happened 4 ...

How can I tell if this boy with a "lady's man" reputation likes me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Ok...so there's this kid. One day and me and a group of friends were playing truth and dare. He got dared to kiss one of my friends but said no and kissed me instead. Now I really like him but don't know whether he likes me or not because he's ...

I love him so much and he tells me the same but him always leaving me for his ex keeps me frustrated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - i think i have found my soulmate. he has all the signs of a soulmate, but he says he is in love with someone else, but he keeps running back to me....i feel his thoughts..i have confront him by telling him i know he thinks of me every morning and ...

Should I give him a second chance for the baby's sake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - ok i have wrote on here before about my boyfriend, he is in the army. i'm pregnant and have 3 weeks left. My boyfriend of 3 years has been distant with me and went on a lads holiday and basically hasnt spent no time with me. i have recently got a ...

How do you know when they love you and mean it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - If a lad tells you he loves you .. how do you know that he means it ?? x...

How can I ask out a girl I have just met?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (?) - lets say i go to the mall and i see this cute girl, i never met before and she is with a friend i want to talk and maybe ask her out but i don't know how. advice?...

She has a family history of cheating women! How can I stop thinking she will cheat on me too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - Im a 29 year old male, and I have been currently dating a woman for over a year. We hit it off when we met so we ended up moving in together. Life hasn't been better!!! But I find myself thinking about the following quite a bit, How can I get it out ...

I have now become the doormat or the soap box. What can I do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I would really appreciate your advice and comments. I do not know who else to turn to regarding my situation, someone who can give an unbiased opinion of it. I'm 21 and my 'boyfriend' is 34. We've known each other for roughly 3 years. I did not...

I fear that he will leave me and find someone else! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now. he has started an aprentaship and goes to collage 3 times a week but soon it will only be once a week. I love him so much and as he is two years older than me i am scared he wwill find some1 ...

Why is my girlfriend's past bothering me so much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 month. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginity an...

After my pregnancy, my husband prefers to look at porn instead of sex with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my husband for 5years now, we have 2 babies.. a while back , late at night, he asked what i was about to do... I said,"go sit on the couch"... well, the t.v. timer came on for lesbian sex. I figured I wasnt doin the job, so i go to ...

I'm involved a crazy love triangle!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Alright this one is a tough one, so I'll try to really explain this one. I'm involved in a crazy love triangle. I have a child with a guy who has another child with another girl. She has two children ages 2 and 5. Now a couple months ago I got ...

My ex had unprotected sex with another guy and got pregnant. Now she want my help! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for 4-5 months now. We dated for over 4 years. I had been trying to work things out with her but it was not going anywhere. There was too much history to throw away. In July I was out with a coworker at a ...

How can I accept my appearance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - hi their, this isnt a love or sexual question, its more about appearance.. im about 5'4 large built and a little overweight.. alot of people tell me how pretty i am, but all i see is ugly and fat, i got tormented at school when i was younger when...

How can I handle my lover's best friend who wants to tear us apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I really need advice on this and Im sorry for the length but to truly understand you kinda need to know everything. It's a very complex situation. I've already established that this isnt perhaps a great situation, but I need help on how to deal ...

Is he telling the truth? Should I trust him? He refused to let me see the cell phone bill!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - My husband of 5 years had an affair while I was out of the country for 2 weeks. He said it was over(after 3months). I asked to see the cell phone bill. He refused and I needed to trust him. He gets so angry when I ask. Is he telling me the truth. ...

Cheating boyfriend drama! Should I attempt to trust him or take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Hello all. CHEATING BF DRAMA I have the same story of so many young ladies. My bf cheated and it hurt. We have been together for 3 years now. Our first year together, we were college freshmen. He transferred from his school to m...

Did I do the right thing in ending it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - hey i was with my ex for 2 months but i never had sex with him i just wasnt ready he said that he understands and that he would wait till i was ready. so any way one night i went out with friends got drunk and he thinks for some reason i had sex ...

How to survive an affair? I still feel betrayed and don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - How to survive an affair? My husband and I have been married for 16 years. About one year ago, after a very tough period together, I found out he was having an affair and had been for atleast a year with a woman who had worked for him previous...

I found my husband had sent texts to a woman he met on an adult friend finder website!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for ten years. I have never had cause to think that he was cheating on me. We have a healthy sex life, he is home every night at the same time, we talk about everything, and he is my best friend. Last night I found ...

I'm concerned that she's going to try to take him away from me. How do I tell her to back off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - In the past year and a half, my boyfriend and I have had a lots of ups and downs and things were finally seeming to get better again when 2 weeks ago on Saturday we were at a friends house and we met a girl, lets call her C. My pregnant friend, ...

I'm worried about her tendency to lie about big and small things. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - I've been engaged for a few months now and my fiance stays in another town. I love with all my heart and I am looking forward to our future together. There is however one issue that worries me. She has the tendency of lying about issues both ...

I won't let my boyfriend go down on me because I think it's disgusting down there!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend wants to go down on me but im uncomfortable with it cuz i mean isnt it disgusting down there like the pee comes out from there and its slimy and smelly and hairy so why would anyone want to do that?...

She says she loves me and I'm the perfect guy for her but... she doesn't want to be my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - ok then the girl ive been seeing for months says were just friends,yet we reguarly have sex an talk about a serious relationship together.but she says she doesnt love me and wants nothing with me,yet she says im the perfect guy and if she was to get ...

How long should I wait on sex to earn respect in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Ok it's super unlike me to wait on sex but I'm coming to realize that pretty much if you want someone to respect you, you have to give it some time. So... how long do I give it and more importantly how the hell do I politely turn it down??? Guys are ...

He says he doesn't do oral sex - is he lying or is it something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I am hooking up with a guy who does not perform oral sex. He says it is reserved for his wife-to-be or if he is drunk. He has done it before, but not to me. He says it is a cultural thing for him, that the boys he grew up with are all the same. ...