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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I have a gut feeling my husband has cheated on me before, has he?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I have this gut feeling that my husband cheated on me in the past. We were having problems, he walked out on our less than a year marriage, said he lost all interest in everything and need to get away for awhile. He moved in with friends of his ...

She still swears nothing more than kissing ever happened what do YOU think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - About 2 years ago my girlfriend started a relationship with her ex for about 2 months behind my back (we had been together for 3 years at the time). They had been in an online relationship for years before we were together and talked frequently on ...

Just wondering if there is anyone out there that has hurt the person that they adore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - Hi my name is Kieron and up intill a month ago i was one of the happyest men youcould meet. But that all changed when my partner told me she was leaving. It all started about a 3 monthes ago i have had some problems with myself due to things in the ...

When do you give up? Am I over-reacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Help! I take psych medications for depression and anxiety so I dont always know if I am overreacting to something or getting being too nice and always question myself. So I am please asking for advice I am so angry and hurt! My bf of almost three ...

He hardly talks to me on his own. The relationship is going downhill, as his school results!... What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - HI... I'm sure youi get like a million letters with the same problem as i seem to be havin, but that doesnt change the fact that it makes you feel pretty much miserable. Well.. here goes... My boyfriend and i have been together for two and a half y...

Am I the only one who thinks it is wrong for married guys to flirt too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hey guys, I have a bit of a common problem, I guess. This guy at my work clearly has a 'thing' for me. He also happens to be married. In my eyes this is inappropriate in itself, but someone told me once there is a line. Supposedly some actions ...

He's obsessed with my past, now he's broken up with me again! Do you think he'll come back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - He broke up with me again! He always comes back after a while, do you think he'll come back to me again? Ok, I posted about something like this a few days ago. the thing is he has issues with my past. I really love him, and apparently he do...

He promised he wouldnt, but he's still looking at other girls, help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - How do i trust my boyfriend again after he has lied so much? My boyfriend carried on looking at other girls even though he said that he wasn't, he seen how much it was hurting me yet he continued to do it, and lie about it again and again. Now my ...

My friend flirts with a married man,but only to take his job, should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - My friend Patricia says that this married man loves her, she sees him regularly, always flirts and laughs at his jokes, he's 10 years her senior, she says he loves it and she thinks he's mad about her, she laughs about it but she's always degrading ...

I'm suffering the green eyed monster, and I feel extremely threatened by her. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 255 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Basically, I'm in a long distance relationship (100 miles) of 1 month, and I'm a little iffy about one of my boyfriend's female friends, who is actually married (but unhappily). They have a little history- they weren't boyfriend and girlfriend b...

I wonder why my boyfriend is with ME since this girl is more beautiful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - When my boyfriend was at college he met a girl who he became good friends with as they were in the same class, he had to draw her alot for his project as they worked together and I got really jealous of the girl as she was really beautiful, and he ...

I want to dump him because I think his too old for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - i went out with a boy that is 20 years old and i am 14 years old, he loves me to bits but i dont really know the meaning of love. and i also think that he is playing me because his mates say his a player but he say they are lieing, i told my girl ...

I stupidly told my friends I was goin out with this guy when I wasnt-How do I get out this mess?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - dear cupid, ive done somethin really stupid, i told my friends i was goin out with this guy when i really wasnt because i was so sick of them bragging about there own love lives, now my friend added the guy i sed i was goin out with on msn and shes ...

Was he cheating in the photo?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Just seen a photo on bebo of my boyfriend on a nite out with his friends. In the photo he has a girl (his friends friend - to him a stranger) wrapped around his neck - both her arms locked around the back of his neck and his arm around the back of ...

I can't help but feel jealous that this one girl keeps calling my bf or he keeps calling her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - we've been dating for just about 7 months now and well...I can't help but feel jealous that this one girl keeps calling my bf or he keeps calling her. He knows that I don't like him hanging out with her and talking to her. I've talked to him many...

I discovered my wife's embarrassing history! What now?!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I discovered recently that my wife worked as a high-priced prostitute, two years prior to our meeting. She was desperate for money at the time. She says she's been thoroughly tested and does not have any communicable diseases. Further, she deeply ...

Should I let him meet this girl and just trust him, or tell him if he meets her it's over?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - hey, i need your help. I met a guy of facebook, he lives in my area and we met up and now going out. We've been together a month now, but last Friday he told me that this Friday he's meeting a random girl off the internet for the first time to go "s...

I know it was wrong but I looked in my girlfriend's phone and I felt destroyed!!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have have been having the time of our lives over the past 8 months. I'm 48 and she's 45. We're both very much in love, and then last week I saw a dramatic change in her. Even in the bedroom she was cold. Something she has alwa...

This girl keeps contacting my husband! How can I get it to stop?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for 6 years and this year i found out that he had been talking to a girl for about 6 months. He says nothing hapened and so does she, but now she wont stop calling him and i am scared that as soon as i let my ...

I was agitated at the fact that he told me to fructify my opportunity abroad without him! I wouldn't have ever considered leaving him anyway! What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I am in a HUGE dilema. I'll try to keep this as short as possible... I have been with my boyfriend 3 years. We initally had a rocky relationship, but now everything is perfect, and i've never stopped loving him. Everything is great. I rece...

I come to this site and read everyone's problems... and I start to think pessimistically about my own situations!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Seriously, I love my gf and in my own little mental world I believe that she is faithful to me, and would love me unconditionally. I believe that we are soul mates and that her and I will forever live a happy life together. I believe that our ...

He expects me to cheat..but I'm not going to. Please help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend seems all to ready to break off our relationship. He is fixing to go on a job and he has been cheated on several times in the past. When he goes on a job he is gone for several days or weeks at a time, I think that he is afraid that I ...

My boyfriend says he loves me and doesn't care if we never have sex again. Should I believe him? I have a low sex drive!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - my partner and i have been together for nearly six years. over the last year or so, my sex drive has completley vanished. its very rare i feel "in the mood". my boyfriend tries to initiate sex a couple of times a week, to which i just ignore him,...

Is my boyfriend bi-sexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I think my b/f may be bi-sexual. Last night when we were partying together, he told me that when he was 14 years old he bullied another boy into taking his pants off and fondling himself while my b/f watched. Then another time, he said he let a ...

My fiancee wants me to forgive him and accept his baby with another girl!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we are engaged and he is with me everyday, never spent a night away apart from 3 times in the whole 2 years to work. The last time he went away was January and I have just found out he got a girl pregnant. ...

Opinions from both genders pleas, how do I prove my love for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - I have a tuff situation i have this girlfriend that loves me very much and i love her with evry breathe i take . she is perfect in every way . now id like opions from both genders please . alright i was down the other night and just wanted to run ...

Why does he never want a lift home from me? Could this mean something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - ok so ive been with my bf for about 2 years now and we both started uni this year. he doesnt have his lisence so he catches the bus everyday there and back. when i finish the same time as him i offer him lifts home aswell as his mates if they r w...

Is he cheating? Do I confront him? Please help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Ok, I will start from beginning. I have been with my partner coming up to one year. He has never given me reason not to trust him. About 6 months ago, he went away and gave me his email password so I could check it for him. I have never snooped. N...

My fiance says because I'm so controlling, I'm making him the way he is. Is he letting go of our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Help! I've been with my fiance for 4yrs, we've had bad times, he used to be a bad gambler, and I had to take control of his money to help pay his debts so he had no money to gamble with. luckily this worked and he hasn't gambled for a year. we s...

I am getting back into the dating scene after a divorce. How can I ever trust men again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I am a 34 year old nurse who divorced her husband just last year. Over the past couple of months, I have been trying to re-enter the dating scene. I joined a dating site and went on a couple of dull dates. Then, almost three weeks ago, I finally ...

He keeps bringing up my past and spoiling our relationship, please help me sort this out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I'm confused... My BF had broken up with me, not the first time, really... I just don't get it! I love him very very very veeeery much! And I wish we could sort this out, I don't know what to do/think/feel... He broke up with me because he gets...

Why do men lie??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Me and this guy hit it off perfectly, there was never a dull moment between us. We loved being around each other, but over the course of our relationship he would lie about the stupidest things...and just not tell me the truth. He told me that he ...

I don't know if I completely trust my boyfriend, as he lives far away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I'm dating this guy that lives very far and i'm not sure if i completely trust him. What should i do???...

How can I tell her the Gospel Truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - hi, my little problem is this. It is just about this lady in my hood. I've been eyeing her for some times now but feeling afraid to go meet her. One day she now came to me and preach the gospel to me. I pretend as if i accepted what she has to say. ...

We break up and he suddenly texts me to marry him. I accept and now he is unexpectedly in Jamaica visiting his ex family?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - me and my fiance have been having a lot of pathetic arguments lately due to trust issues,i ended it 2 wks ago after 10 days of no contact he txt me and asked me to marry him which i said yes as i love him just as much as i thought he loved me.t...

My husband's porn watching has put me in a deep depression, someone help me understand why?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I have been married for 5 1/2 years when I discovered my husband was watching a lot of porn. It started when I woke up one night and saw my husband walking to the bathroom with our lap top. He said he had to go to the bathroom but then put the ...

My boyfriend stopped caring... what is left to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - My Boyfriend Has Stopped Caring. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months we were happy to start with, got engaged and everythin, now everythings changed. he wants more time alone and when i decide to go out on the town with my mATEs he hates i...

Should I become a meaner person... or louder and outspoken just to be loved??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - So i am the sweetest person anyone can meet..evryone who i have ever encountered tells me that i am nice and i am really kindhearted. I am willing to be devoted to someone, care about them and be faithful...so i dnt understand why guys wont make me ...

He says he loves me but he says it sarcastically at times, I have doubts he does...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - hi all.... i have a question ok im madly in love with my boyfriend and he tells me he loves me all the time but sometimes he says it with sarcasm and it makes me think is he just saying it to make me happy? but also we have been trying to get preg...

I became closed after my first relationship (with a manipulator) and it's affecting my current relation. How do I learn to GIVE again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - I need help learning to love and give again... When I was younger (18) I was involved in a relationship with someone much older. It took 3 years to figure out that he was someone with big issues and my continous pouring of love into the relatio...

Is his porn wathching affecting our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - Our sex life is not normal. I initiate sex 100% of the time, and he does it when he knows it's about time or I will be crying from the lack of sex. He does not cum unless he is back from a business trip. If it was up to him we'd probably have sex ...

I have trust issues, and afraid I may lose him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 259 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - My name is Tameika, and my question is how can i trust my mate if i have trust issues? He has been seeking to be with other people due to me not being able to trust him. I have been hurt before and i am scared to trust my mate because i think he...

I was molested when I was younger, and now I cannot bring myself to be comfortable with sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - Hi I am a 21 year old gal...I met this guy when i was in college (first year)..we became great friends. Later he became my best buddy, and somewhere at the back of our minds both of us knew that we wanted something more from our relationship, so ...

I like this guy, but he reminds me of my abusive ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - My ex bf was emotionally abusive and very narrcissistic. He was a very sarcastic person and would never show any sympathy, he would just be sarcastic. I have met a new guy and I like him but part of me feels like he reminds me of my abusive ex. He ...

BF in contact with ex-fiancee often and recent - What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - Please Help! My BF of three years says he loves me but I think he loves the talents I have decorating and sex and such and he loves having me as a companion! He says he loves me but I just found out that he has been in touch with his ex-fiancee by ...

My playboy boyfriend lies to me all the time, how do I confront him? Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I would really appreciate some constructive advice on my problem. I am a complete mess at the moment and I can't stop crying and worrying all the time. Background: I have been seeing my boyfriend on and off for 5 years. We dated fo...

He acts weird like if he doubts on me like he doesn't trust me that much should I be worried??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 260 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - Well...me and my boyfriend are going to complete our year of being together....sometimes he acts weird like if he doubts on me like he doesnt trust me that much should i be worried?? because my best friend started telling him all these things that ...

We both have trust issues-help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I both have been put through complete and utter hell in past relationships. We've never managed to find the right one. We both are sure that we've found the right one now, but I got married when I was 16 and he was 19, which lacked ...

My boyfriend is damaged by his ex and afraid to let me in. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost three months and the first month was absolutely perfect. He was very attentive, called and texted me often, and also did a lot of PDA. The first half of the second month went easily. Then as ...

I discovered he keeps erotic photos of his old girlfriends too, so now I feel less special to him...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 260 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - Hello, I am 47 year old young widow and am dating a 39 year old for seven months now. While I always knew he had dirty photos of his old girlfriend's in his computer, it never bothered me, but I did wonder...... also- he has taken dirty photos of ...