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male
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30-35,
*shcrop
writes: She has always told me that she wouldnt cheating and would never leave me it sounds stupid but i after some time i started to believe her. now later down the road she tells me that 6 months ago she cheated on me with some guy she only saw 3 times before it happened she kissed him she told me she said it was deep. i only got this news 3 days ago. We're on a break right now and she texted me saying she was going to go to the movies with a guy that she said she likes but likes him very little she ends up kissing him as it turns out to be the same guy from six months ago. She like going to she best friends house to sleep over which used to be no big deal to me but since learning of what has happened i dont feel i can trust her anyone more she seems to get angry a lot more now and she has since started taking Ecstasy with that same friend she says that she feel safe she did it behind my back but me being someone that has taken many drugs for many years i was able to figure out she took something now i have since stopped use of all drugs because she asked me to the only thing i do now is smoke cigarettes which i am trying to kick right now. she says it like she hasnt even cheat and she makes it sound like i made her cheat I knew she wanted to try Ecstasy and i told her that if she really wanted to i would get some and she cold take it with me but she said no to me. It seems to me that she got excited of the idea of doing it with her who by the way always has many guys over. She has also always looked me in my eyes and told me she has and would never cheat well i mean i now know she is a very good at lying. in fact she still talks to him and i asked her if we get back together are you gonna stop taking to him. she said no. she said something the last time we spoke she said that she doesnt even talk to him that much and she doesnt even have him saved as a contact but i remember now that a few times when we were hanging out she would get a text from someone with no name meaning unsave number she would read it but then walk away from me to reply she would say "what who is this" but i dont really know what she reply saying im starting to think that im being played for a fool. i dont like to think that i am a fool it makes me mad. i own that i dont own her but i feel like if i have a girl friend she should try to bend my way a little bit to should i stay or should go. please someone give me some help anything i would be over thankful for. thanks for reading.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 She has lied and cheated on you, therefore i feel that she doesnt love you, if she cared about you she would be begging for your forgiveness and trying to earn your trust back but it sounds to me like she just cant be bothered and that she is not to bothered if she is with you or not. You can do better than that believe me. I think you should just forget about her and move on with your life, spend time with friends and go out socializing meeting new people.
However dont let this get you back on the drugs as drugs ruin peoples lives and they become someone that they are not. Good for you for wanting to quit cigarettes try and concentrate on that and dont contact your ex. Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): Look, anyone who is using drugs or alcohol has their judgment and impulse control impaired.
They can promise you the world, and have the best of intentions, but once they are under the influence then their promises mean nothing.
There are no exceptions.
None at all.
Nobody is immune...nobody of any age or intellectual ability.
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