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*lektra
writes:Dear frends!i'm writting from a difficult moment in my life, and the fact is that i don't know what to do!!here is the case, my boyfriend and i live in different cities that are 6 hours apart! i have been with him for more than three years and lets say i had many problems all these years with him!! yesterday i met him and stayed together. next year we were planning to live here! the only fear that i had is that if he were interested in any other girl to the place were he lives, as he was flirting so much on our first year of the relationship! things were going just fine when suddenly yesterday i read on his facebook that he was interested in the name of another girl! i felt miserable as i was "sacrificing" my family for him as both our family knew of our relationship! my parents still have hopes for me, to leave him!as soon as i read that, i disscused with him and he admitted that the only thing he had done wrong was to ask for her name. i know what kind of guy he is. but i dont trust him any more! and during 3 years i always was saying to him that his irresponsability will break off our relationship! and all this occured yesterday!as i discussed with him i left him! i know we both love each other but i dont want to live with fear all my life! i'm feeling terrible! have i made the right decision?
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reader, elektra +, writes (19 April 2011):
elektra is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou're right! thats what i will do!! thanks a lot
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (19 April 2011):
 Where there's a will there's a way.
Give it some time, but don't stop doing your thing.
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reader, elektra +, writes (18 April 2011):
elektra is verified as being by the original poster of the questionfirstly thanks for the advice!
secondly things now are even more complicated! i have talked with him!! and i gave him a choice! i said him that one thing i know for sure that i won't be with him and i won't continue this relationship in such this distance as i don't belive you. and if you want your choice is to move in to the city where i live as soon as possible. this is something that he never will be able to do as he isn't on a good financial time!! so i think that our 3 years relationship are being throwed away!
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reader, cupidus +, writes (17 April 2011):
He's looking at his options you should be too.He'll soon be stringing both of you along. Or he could be upfront and break it off with you. But some people like to keep their options open ended which means secrets will be kept. You're now informed so proceed according to what you will and won't accept. Game on or over, it's your choice.
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