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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: ok so theres this guy that i met like 6 months ago and i recently started to have feelings for him but i don't know if he likes me back. Sometimes he seems like he likes me a lot and sometimes he seems like he doesn't care at all. My friends always tell me that it seems like he likes me because we are always around each other but that's just because we're good firends so i don't know if it means anything. He makes fun of me a lot but in a joking way and hes always like you know im just kidding right? And he always is like ur such an awesome friend and stuff and he hates it when i talk to my other guy friends and don't include him in the conversation. Also, he actually cares when im in a bad mood like he can always tell and wants to help and stuff and he said he would always be there for me. It's weird though because then he is always like, you like scott (one of my friends) and im like no, and he wouldn't say that if he liked me and he never looks at me during class which guys that like you usually do, and when our whole group of friends goes places he never goes and it seems like he would want to if he liked me, so i don't know if i have a chance with him. Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (17 April 2011):
 I think he DOES like you... very much but he seems shy and insecure. He genuinely cares for you but takes a back seat when you go out in a group, again could be because he's shy. You are both still very young, I wouldn't worry too much about this though. Instead, enjoy the friendship you have with him now. It will continue to grow and as time passes and you both mature, I'm sure he'll get braver and even ask you out somewhere.
Don't pressure him though or be pushed to do something you don't feel comfortable with by friends, as that will only make him run in the opposite direction. Take it as a compliment that he likes to be around you and tells you that he'll always be there for you. You sound really special to him. The rest will come with time.
~Eve~
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