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writes: i have a girlfriend and have been going with her for 16months. however, in the 14th month i cheated on her, with another man. it turns out he was bi, and weirdly, we got on to the topic of penis. we kissed and i had sex with him. it was odd but felt right. we had sex 2 more times. he moved away however. i carried on as if nothing has happened and still had a great time with my gf. i have accepted my self (BUT NOT TOLD NO ONE) that i am bi. now though, the guy has returned but has asked me to leave my gf and go with him. im confused. i enjoyed having sex with him but i cant see myself in a gay relationship, i liked it as a change. but one part of me is saying go, another is saying stay and another is saying ask my gf if we can have a 3 way relationship. i dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!HELP?????? Reply to this Question
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (17 April 2011):
Firstly, no way to the 3-way, that is just ridiculous.
Secondly, you have to decide what you want - it's one or the other. You have to be true to yourself and go with what your instincts and head tell you.
You have already said you can't see youself in a gay relationship and the part of you saying go for it is probably the mystery of the unknown and something new.
But at the same time, you are being unfair on your girlfriend. You have already cheated on her and thinking about possibly leaving her.
We can't make the decision for you, but personally, I don't think you should be in a relationship at all until you know what you want.
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