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writes: i'm 24 years old with a 3 week old baby in a shitty apartment writting on an peace of crap labtop. with no job and zero friends due to the fact i lost them all because i was so wrapped up with my ex. who by the way i still love but f*** off when i told him i was pregant and is now with someone new. okay now the question i kinda like this guy who knows i have a baby but i don't know how to ask him out and i'm kinda scared as i think i still have feelings for my ex. plus with my present situation all the above i don't know if he go out with me. so i don't know what to do. plus the new guy is kinda avoiding me cos my ex turn up out of the blue and said to him i was only trying to get with him cos he is feeding us as im so broke which aint ture.what do i do??????????
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2011): Very sad to listen that, it sounds like you are from India (if i am not wrong) it happens with many girls in India, boys usually promise to marry before falling in love and once they take control of the prey, they will use her and through it like a scrap, but this happens because innocent girls they just believe in cheaters for desire of marriage and love. However, don't worry, he will learn lesson one day, and stop thinking about him and look for very good life awaiting before you, before looking for someone, think before falling with him and don't think you will not get anybody in this world there are many, just wait & see.
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reader, coolbeans  +, writes (14 April 2011):
 Concentrate on yourself and your new little baby. Take this time to heal from your break up and be the best mom you can be! Let this new guy make the move on you. You've got enough to deal with right now.
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reader, b90219 +, writes (14 April 2011):
Girl, you can do SO much better than your ex. If he's acting like that than he isn't worth more than a piece oh crap. You just need to open up to the guy you like, just tell him straight up.(:
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (14 April 2011):
 Your ex is with someone new, so your feelings don't matter, he's unavailable.
You like this new guy. Hell girl, your not talking about marrying him, your talking about going on a date. It's not that big a deal, just invite him over and get romantic, or try to think of somewhere cheap or free to take him. Picnic sounds good.
He'll either say yes or no. Can't see you've got nothing to loose by telling a guy you like him and you'd like to get to know him better.
Sigh.... you worry to much. Everything will be alright, and if it's not you'll survive, until something better comes along.
Good luck, go have yourself some fun. (Try to get girlfriends if you can, they help when your single and looking for a new man)
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