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writes: I know this might sound like in jumping to conclusion and all that usual stuff but I'm really confused. I've known this guy for ages and we are friends, it was always a thing of will they won't they and it looked promising until a couple of months ago. At a girls night I confessed to having a complete thing for him. So anyway someone leaked it to his face and when I was confronted about by other people I denied it. I wish I hadn't but I did. So after that things have been pretty frosty and we barely speak. I still really like him and recently I think he might like me. When we were put on a project together he said it would be great to spend time working together. Another time his friend asked if our parents being close worked to his advantage. Does this mean he likes me or am I just jumping to conclusions, in unsure after everything that I've done. If he does like me what should I do please help ???? Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (20 April 2011):
 Now that conflicting messages are out there, it's best if you just confront this with the person it matters to, the boy you like.
You're going to have to talk to him. Tell him you know about the things people are saying, and you wanted to make it clear for him. Then tell him you like him and are wondering if he'd be interested in going out with you sometime.
I know it's scary, but if you can manage to do it, I doubt you'll regret it. Even if he doesn't feel the same way, you will have found courage you didn't know you had. You can do it!
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