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*taceyann
writes:okay so, i went to primary school with this guy, we didn't speak for about 5 years after that but now we have started speaking again, i'm starting to fall in love with him and i think he's perfect for me, but the thing is im not sure if he likes me. i'm meeting him today with a few friends and he's also bringing some of his, i've met his friends and they all say he's cool so i've got nothing to worry about.. but the thing is.. i'm so nervous! i've got really bad stomach cramps and i've been sick twice and still feel it now, but i know if i dont go then i will be find, so it's just nerves. what should i do? shall i eat or drink something? please help!Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Blod +, writes (16 January 2010):
 I have the same problem as you when it comes to nerves. I struggle to eat and am sick, and most of the time it's totally irrational. Try to eat and drink something, just eat a little at a time. Try to relax, listen to music and keep busy so that you're mind is occupied with something else.
You've said yourself that he's nice and his friends say he's cool so there's no need to worry. You're just meeting up with someone which is something that happens lots of times in life.
The most important thing is that you go. I know it's so easy to think I'm not going so I have nothing to worry about, but that makes it worse. Tackle it head on and go for it.
Good luck. X
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