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writes:I hate my parents, i get chewed out over anything. Even stuff they have done. They have taught me its not okay to love anyone and that no matter how nice I am I am being rude or a nuisance. Reply to this Question
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (11 January 2010):
 I'm a little confused. Are you saying they're saying its not right to love your parents (as in anyone)? Chewed out for anything you do even if they did it?
Without specifics, just if you looked at it straight on, its nonsensical ranting.
Try this. Whatever it is that your parents have against you loving someone else, find out why they say this. Because I have to say, there is nothing wrong with loving other people.
As far as whatever it is they're complaining about, could it be that maybe they're frustrated by something? I don't know but at your age, my folks would get pretty upset if they asked me to toss the trash out and I took longer than necessary to do the job. That may simply be the "iggie" factor of their commands not registering immediately. Its easy to get distracted and not pay attention. So if you ignore them, they get irritated.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (11 January 2010):
 well move out see if you can find a job and get emancipated, parents arent perfect some are good some are okay and some suck your old enough to stand on your own and not have to put up with mistreatement if thats how they feel about you leave when you get your own you can make the rules.
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