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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I came home to be with him and now I am so confused!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Okay so basically my ex and I have known each other for 10years..we were best mates in school and dated for a bit when we were younger. Then when we were about 20 we both admitted we were in love and soul mates. So for two years we had a great ...

Shouldn't I be the one she runs to when she's feeling down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - So I'm a bit new to this, but i thought i'd get some opinions. Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a month or so now, and the problem lies with her two guy best friends. She's known them about a year or so. Feels like she talks t...

I'm really uncertain what my girlfriend is up to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - The other day my girlfriend and I were fooling around. I've never had problems making her orgasm with my hand before and she is usually really sensitive. She seemed to definitely be feeling good but I couldn't quite get her to orgasm. She ended up ...

I need to get it out of my mind that he's going to mess around again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hi guys - I have been reading a few articles on the net and thought I'd write in to get some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years and love him so much. We have so many memories and are best friends. That said this year has been awf...

My girlfriend has changed since we moved in together!

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21 December 2010 (M) - ok me and my girl friend been together four years and every thing was going well until the past 8 months when we got our on place she has changed and pushes me out the door this christmas when her mom and sister comes makein there self right at home ...

Should I tell him I'm the one who created a fake facebook profile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - HI all, Now that the semester is over. I think it is okay to tell my college teacher that I like him. But first off, let me give yall a little background. My teacher is 27 years old currently a grad student at my school. I have a crush on him, ...

A sort of friend is going after my guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hi! I have a four month relationship with my boyfriend... And we've had a lot of troubles... Jack, my boyfriend... Is really cute and sweet. One of my ex friends who has pretty much made me depressed and tried to cause hell to me before I've ever ...

Observing my parent's marriage has made me fear marriage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

21 December 2010 (?) - my mom and dad r very nice people,bt they look at everything from different angle.so i hav been watching them fighting all my life.now i hav developed a kind of fear about marriage.everytime i remember that one day i will hav to marry,i feel like a ...

Will he just keep making remarks like that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - im 14 and me and my bf are in year 10 and the satme set but the other day in spanish he was sitting with his mates and i was sittin with my mate on the other side of the room and he made a comment about my weight im not fat i juss have an eatin di...

StepDad terrorises me And Mum stays silent. Help please

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - My mum got together with my stepdad when I was 6 years old (I'm now 20).All of my life he's been terrorising me and bullying me to the point when I was 14 I shot myself in the head with an airgun because I was severely depressed over him. Mum neve...

I'm not ok with him hanging around with women he's slept with!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Ok I'm not comfortable with a situation I'm in and im not sure how to address it.. To keep it simple..prior to my relationship, my bf racked up a large 'score' so to speak.. and he's from a small town so everytime he goes 'home' he's around or p...

Why is my cousin so possessive of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Does this behaviour imply that he thinks Im his possession? I told my cousin that I was buying a dress and he said 'not too short', I asked why not and he said 'you are not so young' (I am 41). Yet he also has said before that I have such beauti...

Boyfriend has been acting differently since his brother died

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - I'm 17 and I got my first boyfriend a year and a half ago. We're still together, but recently he's been acting differently around me. I feel like now he doesn't care about me at all. He started acting differently when his brother died a couple of ...

He ignores me and then says its my imagination

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf is avoiding me constantly, if he is nice to me for 2 days he would avoid me like plague for another 4 days, then again he would talk to me as if nothing happened. Whenever i ask him what's going on, he'll just say i am imaginging ...

We're both attached so why does she act this way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - So Here goes. I have been working with a very nice pretty lady for 3 years now. I am married. She got engaged a month ago. When I first started working with her she was single and I had a strong sense that she was attracted to me. She would touch my ...

Confused soul who thought she knew it all...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hard to determine what my relationship status is with this man however it seems to work for both of us. He's an aquarius and I'm an aries (both independent souls) Started off as friends who met online from a social network and about a month later ...

Who is telling the truth here? I am stuck in the middle and don't know who to believe!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. he's rough around the edges, but he is trying, and seems to be growing up, and in my head we're not all perfect. my mother has always been on the fence about him, and my best friend says she likes him, but ...

Is this lack of communication during the day, and seeing each other only once a week normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hey, guys.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1.5years. I'm 25 and he's 35. Ever since we got together, there's one thing that really bugs me. his habit of not calling. OK lemme make it simple: 1. He never texts or calls from morning til...

Why can't he look me in the eye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Why can't he look me in the eye, he might sometimes but when our gazes meet he looks away or starts walking and talking instead...we had some ups and downs in our knowing eachother, and i think this guy is an attention hound when it comes to the ...

Can I forgive this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - I've been with my partner for over two years but four mths ago,I discovered he'd been having cybersex with strangers,including on webcam and swapping intimate photos.I've tried to keep the relationship going,with the beginnings of therapy,he got rid ...

How can I make her be my friend again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - Hi. Okay, so... I had a girl which was my best friend, we used to talk almost the whole time and being together a lot, I loved her but didn't tell her because I didn't want to ruin our friendship. One day she saw I had no mood, it was because of i...

I don't want to give up on this, I want to work through it. But what now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - I have lived a heterosexual life and just came out of the closet a few years ago, not knowing I was even in. My experience so far has been quite challenging. I have a question but not sure if it's just the relationship I'm in or if it's me. I've...

Our paranoia over each other has started to tear us apart!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - How to deal with paranoia in relationships? Me and my boyfriend have been together nearly 2 years and over the past year our paranoia over each other has started to tear us apart. We have both recognised it and want to work it out but just dont kn...

Why does my ex want to be my friend after what he did to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Why is my ex hellbent on being my friend when he put me through the ringer? I hate his guts and he's dead to me! ...

He has a wife and a baby that I never knew about, and now he wants us to start trying for a child!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I was in a relationship two years ago of which one day i received a call from a lady posing to be my boyfriend wife, i was shocked but when i confronted my boyfriend he said it was all a lie then a 8months ago i received a sms from my boyfrien...

Should I fight for what we have or leave him alone? It is hard to let go after 5 years....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5years and recently he says that the relationship we have together is making him depressed as we are not right for each other. The thing is he breaks up with me every other month and i dont know whether this is 1 of ...

Broken hearted, losing sight......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - Hello dear Cupids. It has been two months since my girlfriend brutally dumped me with a text message. So much for honoring a relationship of 2.5 years where we shared a lot. Even before our relationship we were so closed. I helped her through a ve...

I feel dead towards her now, but I don't know what to do because of our baby girl....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - well hello there. i got a problem. so mostly the problem is that i have a baby. if i didnt have a beautiful redhead 7 month old little blue eyed toothless princess then i wouldnt be in this predicament. ive dated baby mama for about 3 year...

She's in a relationship but I told her how I feel, and now she has cut me out of her life! Why would she do this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - hi ive been really good friends with a women who is in a relationship already, we got along so well its unreal, she shows all the signs she likes me and my feelings for her have grown for her so i told her how i feel open up to her and said i d...

I'm really questioning my feelings for him but I don't want my children to loose another dad.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 2yrs and have recently moved in together since doing this he has changed, he goes out drinking all the time, spending my money as he doesnt work, and im starting to really recent him freeloading of me, he is ...

He wants to stop having sex until we get married! I don't know how to feel about this.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Ok my fiance went totally religious on me and were on not going to have Sex anymore untill we get married, let me make it clear that we are engaged with no set date at all :-( this past sunday i went to church with him for the first time and we ...

Why does he hate me when I stay, and hate me when I go? I cant win either way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hey I hope you guys can help me. Ok so here it goes- I was head over heals maniac in love with this guy that I'll call Brian. Well I slaved myself to him around the clock so he always knew he was man's gift to life 24-7. Thing is he never said or ...

Is it normal for men to use prostitutes?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Is it normal for men to use prostitutes? Does paying for it make it any different? Basically i found out my bf had slept with a couple of prostitutes in the past before i met him. He says there is nothing wrong with it nd its just like meetin...

He knew I was leaving for a week and went out with his mates instead! Should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been great, I wouldn't say anything has been wrong. I'm going away tomorrow for Christmas for a week and me and my boyfriend organized to hang out tonight before I went away. Except I haven't heard from him all day, I called ...

I cant get over my wife's past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - Hi all, please help me in this issue, i hate the partner/lovers changing girls, I had no girl friend or sex in life, i used to watch a girl but no use, now i m arranged married person but after few years i came to know my wife had 2 bfs but not sex ...

My girlfriend is asking for too much.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - Hey guys and gals i have a problem... a major one... my girlfriend wants to have sex with me! First of all why now? im fourteen for goodness sake and second of all i don't really love my girlfriend anymore i was going to break up with her t...

Why am I obsessed with a woman I don't want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - Why am I insanely obsessed 24-7 with a woman I don't want?...

Are they hiding something from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hi,i'm deeply in love with my boyfriend and he says he loves me too.but recently he's been acting kinda distant,he doesnt seem to care anymore,doesnt call or text.but whenever i call him he doesnt seem to have much to say.i forgot to mention that ...

Am I a Heartbreaker?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - I am currently in a relationship with a man who continuously tells me that he loves me. I put in a whole lot of effort to keep this long distance relationship work. I make sure that I am looking good and well taken care of from my hygiene to what I ...

Should I think there is still something going on between them, or are they really just 'best friends'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Well..Ive been dating this guy for about 4 months now and am so in love, but like every other relationship we have our share of problems. In the beginning I wasnt the only girl that he was seeing at the time. He lied about the other girl even when I ...

Why wont she say once and for all if its over, or if I need to change for this to work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - My fiance has moved out, again, during the most stressful time of year for us. My income fluctuates and is seasonal. She is out of work and without her own transportation. She's stuck at home alone and not meeting any goals. I'm used to hibernating ...

All he does is play xbox and never spends any time with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Well my boyfriend and i have been dating over a year now. We have been living together 8 months and latley he has been treating me like a pice of (you know what)!! We are supposed to be getting an apartment together soon and we have been visiting ...

My boyfriend doesn't get the "butterflies" with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend told me in a conversation about butterflies, and how he hasn't felt them for a long time. The last time being with this fling/ex of his from years ago - who he concluded was flaky and what he felt was infatuation. I asked him why he ...

She wants things her way regardless of how I feel

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - I have been dating a older women for almost one year, we started as a simple fling which turned into something serious. We both know were not getting to a serious level in terms of a relationship, eventhou i would like to and i have told her that ...

Is she just teasing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - So we're on msn, me and a girl i like. We are not going out but things have started to happen since the christmas party. She's feisty and we know each other well. Next term at uni we want to spend time together alone and see how things go in private ...

Boyfriend is trying to bring my confidence down

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - I have another serious question. my boyfriend of 4 years has been trying to bring my confidence down. i've been told I am very pretty, have a nice body, and great lips. I am 5'3" 132 lbs. I should feel confident of myself but I dnt. My boyfriend ...

Until this weekend I felt used and was building a lot of resentment, now I feel like an abusive jerk.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - I recently had a really really bad argument with a woman I have been dating for a little over a year. The problem I'm having is that I said some TERRIBLE things to her and I feel awful for it. I guess the best place to start is from the beginning. ...

I keep driving away the girls I like by being a wuss!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - Hi, im looking after some really needed advice or a point in the right direction. the only problem i keep having with my realtionships is limited to girls that are really attractive or i consider special. i turn into the nicest guy/wuss which drives ...

Can a man overlook he's ladies past and just want to love and protect her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hi, guy's, i have a concern that I'm scared about and would really appreciate your feedback and words of wisdom. I'm a wonderful loving lady, but my past has been a nightmare. Recently I've met a beautiful man who I'm scared to love. He thinks I'm ...

I feel so betrayed on an emotional and mental level!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - I’ve always known that my BF (we’ve been about 1 year and a half together) was in contact with his Ex-GF (at a frequency of 1 or 2 times a month) which never had bothered me. I also don’t think of myself to be a jealousy monster: I totally let my B...