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writes:HI all, Now that the semester is over. I think it is okay to tell my college teacher that I like him. But first off, let me give yall a little background. My teacher is 27 years old currently a grad student at my school. I have a crush on him, and one time at an event, my friend dropped a hint to him that: She always talks about you and says that you are such a passtionate teacher. So i think he can sense a little bit that i am into him. And Because of the teacher-student relationship issue. I decided not to tell him directly how i feel about him. Instead I have created a fake fb account trying to get to know him more. I then asked one of his fb friend about him. Then the next day my teacher added me on my fake account and 1 week later started talking to me. things went well at the beginning but then i made a mistake: I kept asking him if he has a gf or not and he got a little comfortable and avoided my question. But later i got mad i like can you please dont ignore my question and just tell if you are single not. Then he replied that he is single. then he kept asking me how i met him and what i look like. Because he wsa tring to find out who that girl is. But i kept avoiding his questions. in the middle of the incident, i felt guilty and thought that i should stop talking to him on my fake account. and just use my real identity. then i used my real account to add him. about an hour later i used my fake account to sent him another message because i found out that he limited his profile on my account which i can't see his tagged pictures and wall post. I was pissed and i asked him why did you block your wall and tagged pictures? He later then stopped talking to me. the next day, he confirmed my real account but has limited his profile: i can't see his wall and tagged pictures. Then the next he sent the last message to my fake account: since it does not appear to me we have acutally met. i am removing you from my fb.so guys do you all think that he made a connection bw me and my fake account. bc he knows that i have a crush on him. and there is a fake account girl asking his fb friend about him. Should i confess to him what i did and apoligize to him and see what he has to say? I really want to just let me know how i feel about him. i have been liking him for a semester. and i am sure my feelings cant go away at least for a while. plase tell me what i should do thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2010): tell him you created fake profile and tell him about your feelings...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): Whatever you do, DO NOT TELL HIM YOU CREATED A FAKE ACCOUNT. To be honest, it's a little creepy and weird. It really doesn't sound like you made any sort of connection with him with the fake account and it was not a very good idea. You obviously didn't have any ill intentions but it will only repel him if you tell him you made a fake account. We all make mistakes so the best thing to do - in my opinion - is to forget about the fake account and try to get to know him as yourself. Don't go creating accounts or thinking up of sneaky ways to get in touch with him. Just put yourself out there and talk to him. He may reject you but he may also be open to the idea of taking you out, who knows.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): Hey there!
I don't know that telling him would be the best idea...he may not warm well to the idea that you were lying to him. BUT the best way to start is always with the truth.
If you at least just apologize to him for lying and just let him know that you have feelings for him maybe he will understand. This all depends on how you handle the situation...
Your options are either tell him or don't tell him. It's up to you. If you do tell him, tell him in person not over the computer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): You've gotten yourself into some deep shit, there's no doubt about that. You can't really do anything more (believe me I'm not trying to be rude or dissing you because I've done the exact thing only with the guy I like XD). I would send him an email and just explain what happened and that you're sorry. There's nothing wrong with apologizing. Just make sure you're telling the truth, and nothing but the truth, though. Don't make anything up.
My point: yes, tell him. Good luck.
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