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Archived questions from: 4 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Feeling unworthy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy in 2009 and he was very charming. We had unprotected sex and I got pregnant. Then I realised that he was a cheater and told him to leave me alone. During my pregnancy he visited me every month and said he wanted to marry me but he ...

I only seem to attract guys that are taken

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - i only seem to attract men with girlfriends, or wives and i can't help it. When i meet a guy when i'm out and we hit it off and i started texting him it has turned out the past few times that they have already got a girlfriend or in some cases wi...

He has been with a lot of woman, is this typical with military men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I've been dating a Marine for nearly 10 months. He has been overseas 5 out of the 10 months. We talk on the phone nearly every day and have a good relationship, but I keep finding out things about his past. I recently found out that he has slept ...

He cheated on me and I'm left feeling confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - Okay, so my question is should i break up with him or stay with him and see if it will work out? So i was dating my current boyfriend for 3 months and it was going perfect. i couldn't have asked for a better boyfriend. then a week before our 4 mon...

Is this a case of good girls finish last?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend (and all my exs) have gone on and on about how wonderful my personality is, or how easy it is to just kick back and relax with me and how wonderful I am as a girlfriend. My current one said I made him feel like a king- thats how ...

Lately it feels like my boyfriend doesn't want to spend time with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - Lately it feels like my boyfriend doesn't want to spend time with me. i haven't seen him in a while and we had made plans and he says hes going out instead of being with me. when we haven't seen each other in awhile. am i tripping or is there ...

Why would he tell me this now after a year?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - Well I have a concern about my boyfriend. Just yesterday he decided to tell me that last year he went to Q-trip to get gas for his truck. There was this female that he uses to date she approaches him and asks him for $5.00. “Why” would he just now ...

She said she can't live with me any more... help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - My GF and I recently moved in together in Oct. IM 28 and she is 24. Basically the relationship has moved fast we have only been together for 7 months. We love each and each others company. I thought it would be best to wait at least until spring ...

We can't seem to stop fighting...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - Hello there, My girlfriend (27) and I(30) cant stop fighting , we are together now over 3 years and have a 2 and half year old son. I think at the end of the day we are only together because of him. We live together and currently I run a scuba ...

I think he's been living a double life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - Hi all, it seems my boyfriend of 10 months has been seeing his ex all the time hes been with me. Ive always had my suspicions of her and i know they were still friends. I decided this week to sit outside his house as i knew he was out and see who ...

Still in love with my ex, however, she wants to be friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - Hey guys, To explain the extent of my problem I'd have to go back into my relationship to the Summer. My girlfriend and I had been dating for half a year at that point (I realize thats not very long). She had just moved into her first apartment,...

Me wearing makeup is going to break us up!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - my boyfriend recently told me that if i kept on wearing make up(a bit of foundation: not making myself orange, blush and mascara) he would break up with me. i dont like to not wear makeup because i dont feel confident without it on. i love him s...

The magical touch that we once had in our relationship is now gone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - Hello I am 20 years old, I have been in LDR wid this guy for bout two years, in de beginning he was sweet n everything seemed to be so magical. Now the problem is we do not have anything to talk bout, months n months pass n we dont talk on phone n ...

A severe injury broke my hymen and my boyfriend won't accept this, even though I've never had sex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - i had never slept with anyone neither had sex but still i lose my virginity due to severe injury doing gymnastic but my boy frend is not ready to accept this can any one plz tell me whot to do because i dont want to lose him i really love him....

I want to forget her, I don't want to love her anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - hello guys please i want every possible advice for me, i really need that, im in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend , it actually been a long time, the least i can say about her is that im crazy inlove with her, but i wanna for...

What if someday I turn into my abusive father?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - I feel like I'm typing to a damn therapist or something but here goes... When I was younger I had an abusive dad. He would whip me continuously with his belt whenever I misbehaved. Looking back though, I never really did anything that bad. He use...

Sweet guy boyfriend won't drive to see me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do anymore. I have been dating my current boyfriend for almost six months now, and he's amazing - sweet, thoughtful, sensitive, and very much like me. I have never dated anyone like him and I am very happy with the way his...

Am I jealous or have I lost respect.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - 4 years ago I started a new job. Everything was going nicely,the General Manager and my immediate online Manager all had a good working relationship - I had a crush on my boss and yes we flirted alot but I dont believe in crossing that line. Then ...

My GF cries way too much

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - So I have been dating my girlfriend for over 6 months now. It's pretty serious. In many ways she's exactly what I want in a girl. The problem is that she cries way too often, over little things, and I don't know what I can do about it. For examp...

Coping with bereavement of losing your love to suicide

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - You can rebuild your life after some very close has died. But you need to do it at your pace. It certainly made me face life without rose colored glasses. And it opened my eyes to the fact that some people do not have honorable intentions. I am ...

When I don't give b/f money for drugs he tells me I don't belong in this country

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - Iam Chinese but I grew up here! I have a American boyfriend. who iam datinG for one year! I love him. He doesn't work since I met him. He uses drugs and drinks every night and when I tell him to stop using drugs and drinking he tells me you have no ...

I don't think my girlfriend finds me attractive!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - I've been in a terrific, successful relationship for the past 7 months, 5 of which were spent in a long-distance scenario (no more than 1 visit per month). My girlfriend and I have fantastic chemistry together, and I can honestly say that I've never ...

I need advice on writing a letter, to my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I want some advice really on writing letters. I have a very hard time explaining myself verbally so I have been thinking about writing a letter to my boyfriend to explain about things I have not been able to fully explain but that I want and need to ...

Is this just a phase or should we call it a day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and its been amazing we're both so happy. But the last month we're constantly fighting and on and off, but we don't last an hour without gettin back together. Is it time to call it a day or how do we ...

Should I move on or let him move in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4898 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - My bf and i have been together 2 years. we had our shares of bad times and even took a couple month break because our fighting got bad. well the time apart brought us close together so i thought. in the midst of things i have been having alot of ...

My girlfriend never wants to be home anymore.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - Why does it seem like she never wants to be home anymore? She always comes home so late the last couple nights shes come home when im already in bed. And tonight my gramma is babysitting so we can have a night alone but she says she doesnt know if ...