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Archived questions from: 29 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Rollercoaster relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Right so my bf and I have had a big rollercoaster of a reationship. But the happy times have always outweighed the sad in my eyes, so i never gave up. However I did start to feel I cared more for him than he did for me, because I still did all the ...

Need space in the relationship.Some advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months.I love him alot but he doesnt give me any space at all!He always wants me to be by his side every second of the day or on the phone with him.He doesnt give me space to meet my other friends or some ...

New girlfriend flirts excessively and sits on laps

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - So, I think my girlfriend is crossing some standard boundaries. We just started seeing each other. We are both into each other and she suggested we get into an exclusive relationship. I agreed. However, there has been 3 events that have turned me ...

Am I being paranoid or does it mean he has done sumthing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend of 4yrs recantly had an argument which he left our home 4 5days, he spent most of our split in his mates sisters house with his mate. since we got bk 2gether he seems as if he is hiddin sumfing! when ive asked has anythin ...

I need to break up with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - i have been in a relationship for a year and a half now, on and off and i want out of it as i feel that he is controlling me. the other week he told me that he didnt like my friends and that he would prefer that i wasn't friends with them, we argue ...

We've been on and off -- help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hi, Well where do i start, i have been with my boyfriend on and off for the last year and a bit. we were broken up from february to may (he just didnt want to be with me and that was that). I was on anti depressants and really very low as i ju...

BF suddenly claims that he's commitment phobic! Where does that leave me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I am a 24 year old woman and dating a 26 year old guy we have been together for a year now .suddenly he starterd acting up for me like not taking my calls and stoped me from coming to his place he said he has commitment phobia and says he doesn't ...

Eurotrip gone bad.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - About four months ago, i went on a trip to europe. As soon as i left, another guy began flirting heavily with my girlfriend and trying to get her to leave me for him. I knew a little bit about it at the time, and i was a little upset. However, my ...

I've gotten involved with a controlling man again. I want to leave but I'm scared!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I feel a little silly, and scard to type this question, but i'm at a dead end and i don't know what else to do. i am 31 years old, i was divorced 8 years ago from a very controlling manipulative man ... we had 2 children together. i swore to myself ...

I love him but I don't know if he's trying to reconcile with his wife?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Ok, I never thought I would be in love with a married man, and thats not what we both were looking for when we met again after 24 years. And it was just like magic looking in his eyes for the first time again. When we met he was actually separated ...

I resent my stepson and his mother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I have an issue that is making me feel absolutely awful and is threatening the future of my relationship. My partner of five years has an 11 year old son, and I just can't bond with him. In fact, I have always experienced feelings of resentment and ...

I'm paranoid about what could possibly be going on with my girlfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Hello , i just want to know if its just my mind or if its actually happening !! im in a long distance relationship and believe me when i say my gf and i were soooooo much inlove , i still love her though like crazy but we had our ups and downs an...

What can I do to re-gain her trust and change her mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Okay so here is the background: I was with this girl for about a year when we broke up in October 2009, I ended it because I didn't feel the same way about her- I didn't love her anymore. She was absolutely devastated and plummeted into a...

I told my FWB I love him and now he is ignoring me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I have been friends with benefits with the same guy for over a year with the exception of one month when I tried being in a relationship. I have had feeling with the guy for a long time now and he has known about them. Last night I brought up the ...

Is there any real way to "break through" to her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Hi, I realized this year that I have probably had a relationship with a sociopath. Although we never got romantically involved, we became "close"--at least from my end. (I have written about her before here, but in short, the reason I say she...

My girlfriend's mother still won't accept our lesbian relationship after five years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm a 21 year old woman and have been with my girlfriend for nearly five years now (on and off). She is from a very close family and her mother wont accept us. This means at christmas time for example (when we are both home from uni), that ...

Torn between the love of my life and being my mother's full time carer, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I am in love with a *British male beauty pageant winner*. I am in Australia and I have known him for years but I am finding it very difficult because I know he is the one for me and he feels the same. The problem is that I am my Mum's full time ...

Retrojealousy is killing me, how can I make it stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I'm 46, my girlfriend is 35, we've been together for about 16 months, we told each other we loved each other after a year, we're both divorced with two children each. We do love each other, early on w did the whole... How many people have you sleep ...

Do you think he feels guilty about being with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - My partner and I are both 58. He's widowed 3 years and I'm divorced 11 years.We adore each other.We both have sons in their twenties (all still at home) but he also has a son of 8, a late surprise child.As a result I spend most of my time travelling ...

Will she always be a cheater? How spot and avoid a cheater in future?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I just have a question about an ex. I met this girl through work, we flirted and it was as clear as day she was interested. But things were kind of weird, she was also flirting with two other guys at my work. I ended up leaving for a few weeks and ...

I'm in love with my boss and I know its wrong

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - good day everyone im in love with my boss i spent more time with him than my bf we do stay together but im more by my mom than by him i dn't know what to do plz help im madly in love with my boss and he with me i know its not right what im do...

How does a person gain confidence and not worry what others think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hi There! How does one gain confidence and not fear what others think of you? At 40 you would think I would know better! My story begins from when I was only 13. I was sexually-physically abused or maybe more like my uncle didn't penetrate m...

Messy situation with 2 friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - You'd think I would be smarter than this, however, I used to be friends with "Jan" and "Martha". We were known as the 3 Musketeers, but until 5 years ago, Jan decided she no longer wanted to be friends with Martha because of her behavior and just ...

Said he adored me. We broke up, so then he scared me when became abusive. Now wants me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Please help i loved someone, he looked cute. i dated him now 2 years together. He says he adores me, but one day we fought so hard, so i decided to break up. He started to scare me, with the msgs. He had he started to shout and say bad words, and ...

Boyfriend dependable on me and others, but I love him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Okay, so here's my problem-o. I have a boyfriend, who I've been with for five months and counting. We've known each other for almost 4 years, and at first we were just friends with benefits (Before you guys judge me, we would only make-out, never ...

My Inconstant friend has hurt my trust in her. Can I trust her again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Last night I got a text from my best friend. She asked if i wanted to go to the mall on Thursday. i said sure, and then i got another text from her today at 1 pm. She had said that she couldn't go because her ride bailed, and i told her it was fine. ...

Parents don't agree...Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I'm turning fifteen and I am dating a guy who is turning seventeen. We kiss, make-out but have never gone to far. His parents have begun to think that he is too old for me by two years, they also think that my parents don't agree with our ...

My heart still aches, how do I get him off my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - im 19years old had a beautiful son 7months ago,moved in with my childs father,things began to change he started stayin out late,disrespecting me, basically treated me like trash! dont help me out with my son, chose his friends over me and my son,he ...

Is my order of protection against my husband valid even though he disappeared?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - i am married, and recently had a baby. My huband and I have been seperated since the night I told him I was pregnant, he kicked me out. I talked to him a few times after that, mainly for him to verbally abuse me and to ask me to get an abortion. I ...

I don't know where I go wrong!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I've been in several relationships were the guy has been head over heels in love with me and I'm not joking :\ but I can't cope with relationships at all my most recent one was a guy I really liked and I daydreamed about him asking me out ALOT and ...

He's been horrible to me since he broke up with me, but I still have feelings for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - i was dating this boy for about 5 months, we was really happy together until he finshed me on my birthday. ever since then, he's been really horrible to me, insulting me all the time, spreading horrible rumors about me and hacking my facebook, it's ...

How can I get out of this mess?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I just really do not know what to do now! Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year.. We were both in relationships when we had a one night stand which lead to our relationship but ended them. For the first few months it was a ...

So I fancy this boy who messed me around and ended up playing me, then he lost his virginity to some other girl, then we got back together, then he told me he was bored with me, now he wants to have sex with me. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - okay heres my story.. i fancied this boy for a while since back in march 2010, i was absolutely obsessed with him.. (im 14 and hes 15) he messed me around abit and ended up playing me, luckily all i did was kiss him.. about 6 months later we ...

Why is it so difficult to move on out of this crazy relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - So, I finally told my boyfriend who has put me through a lot in the 5years from trying to choke me twice the last incident was 2years ago..that I don't want to have a baby by him. I have 2boys who aren't his and he has a daughter which he see's ...

My 12 yr old brother controls my life... HELP!? Please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I am here to say that my younger brother won't stop controlling my life. I'm 16 and he's 12. On christmas my pearents have just got me a new small mini laptop. I am very happy beacause I finally have my own computer. But whenever I want privacy, ...

I don't feel like I get a fair return in relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Why do I feel this? Let's say everyday I come home from work. I have to cook, clean, and keep my child quiet and inactive. At night I relieve my man (not saying that I don't enjoy sex, I actually very much do.) My man just pretends to help out with ...