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writes:Hey I hope you guys can help me. Ok so here it goes- I was head over heals maniac in love with this guy that I'll call Brian. Well I slaved myself to him around the clock so he always knew he was man's gift to life 24-7. Thing is he never said or did anything to let me know he saw or like it. It was like he was oblivious. Sorta like the way a king isn't flattered my slaves at his like because it's just a given. And the more I slaved to meet his everything the harder he stomped me down and kept me under his feet. I loved him more than my life and told him more times than can be counted on the number chart but he never told me it once. But he always told me he was to good for me and my only thing he saw me fit for was putting his dick in. I left so brian hates me and is sabotages anything that shows the slightest bit of love my way. He says I'm crazy and no man wants me. He calls me real mean names and when I cry and get upset he say I'm weak minded. He laughs at me and teases me and calls me stupid when I forget about the other guys for him. Then he leaves and comes back again. Why does he hate me when I stay and when I go? Why does he hate me at all? I don't win either way. Is it because I won't have sex with him? He's not the one I want to have sex with anymore. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): He's out for revenge because you bucked him off the high horse that you put him on. He can't stand it that you can easily place a man more qualified on your horse. Don't let it bother you. You put him ground where is belongs. Good for you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): Everything Caring Guy said is right on point. People like this have no boundaries when it comes to trying to control. He sounds like the type that will resort to physically harming you if you shut him down completely. He's not wound to tight. Completely severe all forms of contact with him even if it means moving to a new address. He's bad bad bad news.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 December 2010):
This is classic abusive behaviour from a control freak. The aim is to take the little confidence you have, build up up the break you so you're more dependent and he can have more control.
The only way to get rid of this problem is to finally dump him. You need to get away from him and not let men treat you this way. There are far better and more worthy men out there, and you should find one of them instead.
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