A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi! I have a four month relationship with my boyfriend... And we've had a lot of troubles... Jack, my boyfriend... Is really cute and sweet. One of my ex friends who has pretty much made me depressed and tried to cause hell to me before I've ever met Jack... Well Sarah, the chick, likes Jack. And she constantly asks everyone if we're still dating. AND she sends me chain mail that says if I don't send blah blah blah, my true love will leave me... I love Jack. He's super kind, and sweet. He turns down all her advances.. She tries to flirt with him all the time. I know Jack's in love with me, he constantly tells me so. We have such a deep connection. I've saved him from a lot of things... He used to be anorexic, a cutter, and beat himself... Now I make him happy.. I know for sure that I'll stay with Jack for a serious long time if not til the day I die.But this chick apparently doesn't get it... I think these other two girls who are iffy on if they are either friends or not are encouraging Sarah to try to get him.. (All of these girls used to be my girlfriends)I've seen them do it before to another guy.. In a relationship for EIGHT months...Please don't tell me this is just a kiddie relationship.. Can I have any advice? Because if I tell Sarah to back off... She'll start a stink about me around highschool and get those other two sorta girlfriends against me.. Help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): Since his words are doing nothing to deter her, I would approach her yourself, but do it in a mature way. Tell her you're not comfortable with how she acts with him and to kindly back down from her advances.
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