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Archived questions from: 23 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What is wrong with guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - k, what is wrong with guys? everysingle time i say basically anything or try to talk to my boyfriend about anything he thinks i am bitching.... like at dinner tonight for example.. i cooked (like always) and told him hes guna do the dishes for once. ...

I'm not sure if my married male friend still fancies me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I'm not sure what to do about my male friend.He used to fancy me, even though he is married, but i'm not sure if he still does. I saw him yesterday, but we hadn't seen each other for three months before that, and he got back intouch with me last ...

Is it wrong to know her past in details so that I can forget them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - I'm a 28 years old man and my wife is of the same age. Well, she is from a different country and we met each other when i had been to her country for some work. Well it wasnt love at first sight but we eventually fell for each other. At that time i ...

She's controlling, bitchy, bad in bed, and I love her to pieces. Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - this will likely be pretty lenghthy so bear with me...figure i'll get it all out. there will be a multitude of questions throughout so feel free to answer one or all of them. i have been involved with my "situation" for the past 6 years. started o...

A blog post convinced me that I'm being used

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a guy and we were together about 4 months, split up for about 2 but kept in contact and are now sort of back together. altogether we've known each other for about 7 months and I haven't slept with him though he has asked me and he ...

Help, bisexual girl feeling less attracted to bf due to lack of sex life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I am a bisexual girl in a relationship with my bf for about a year and half. We have an age difference, I'm 27 he's 36. At the beginning our sex life was quite good, but now it went downhill. He doesn't give oral anymore and we have sex like...

My husband of 14 years had an affair with a stripper 4 months ago. How do I forgive him?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - My husband of 14 years had an affair with a stripper 4 months ago. I just found about it 2 months ago. He paid her $200.00 for sex in a motel room. (Isn't that protitution?) I also found recepits where he bought her jewelry three different times. ...

Should I confess or not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and im finding it really difficult to cope with my guilt. about 3 weeks ago me and my boyfriend wern't getting along very well and this boy added me on a social networking site i accepted and he ...

Complicated relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - I have (in my opinion) a very complicated situation. I really like this girl who lives in a completely different continent than I do. I met her in my old school, and shes nearly a year older than me. We didn't talk much to eachother since we were in ...

Instead of seeing me over Christmas and New Year he is spending it with his flirty friends! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year now but there is this huge problem with our relationship. He has these friends that he is unusually close to that are ALWAYS flirting with him. I told him how i felt about it before but he ...

Should I tell my husband I still don't think this will work and try and figure things out with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I could ramble on about a introduction about my life, just like everyone's life... there is always drama. You cannot prevent it. Unless you just are immaculately great at keeping out of trouble. Here is a half India half English girl by blood. 2...

Did I cross the line by posing as someone else and chatting to him online to trap him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Hi, Am I in the wrong? and did I ask too much from him? Right Id had been dating this guy for a couple of months and thought it wasn't working out (We had meet on match.com) We would go to his and watch the football or racing and stu...

She cant trust me after I was having conversations with my ex behind her back, what should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Hi Cupid Well I'm having the problem of my love life at the moment. I was with my ex-girlfriend for 1 year 4 months. For the last 4 months we have been separated by distance. We have opted for a long distance relationship because we really believ...

Is she just wanting to take it slowly, or is she stringing me along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Hi, I am looking for some advice on this situation. I have been seeing this woman for a month and a half. We have gone on 5 dates so far. I am really interested in pursuing a relationship with this woman, but there are two things that are making me ...

What is a guy to do when he dates to find companionship, but can't commit because of baggage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Someone I know, who likes me a lot, but currently has a boyfriend, is still trying to get close to me and doesn't seem to want their boyfriend so much as me... and while I've already told them we need to just be friends, the whole of a conversation ...

Should my husband allow this woman to come back and work for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I believe a woman sends my husband inappropriate emails - baiting him... She works with him seasonal 2 months of the year. He can make it so that they will not work together and I am wondering if it is wrong that I would suggest that if she works ...

Does my teacher have feelings for me? Or is this normal behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - We'll I'm 16 years old, female and it my first year in college. So,I have Saturday classes and my classes were on Military Training Service. As far as I know, military training is quite hard but I still chose it because I've always wanted to try i...

Should I break up with him? My friends have seen him with other girls.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Should i break up with my boyfriend? My boyfriend and i have been going out for 5 months tomorrow. He recently started to cancel on dates and hanging out. My friends say that they see him with some girl at our school. One of my friends saw him ...

We've known each other over a year now and have never had a fight! I thought it was healthy to fight occasionally?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Please help me. You know how every couple has their fights and that it's healthy to occasionally fight with your partner ? Well that's not the case in my relationship. I'm only 15. Technically, I'm not dating this guy, but you can basically say iam. ...

Why did she lie to me when she had actually moved in with another guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Why is it that the good guy ends up the jackass? My gf broke up with me telling me she loved me but was overlaod with work, her son so on and so on. I am such a sucker. My best bud sister is her friend and everyone's talking behind my back about how ...

Are my feelings rational? And what should we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Hello Before my girlfriend and I were together she had a small fling with a friend of mine. She has told me that she had no feelings for him and that the only reason she was with him was to help her get over her ex that she had recently broken u...

I haven't heard from my boyfriend and I don't know what is going on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been great lately, except yesterday we got in a little argument because he reuined our new years plans and is doing something with his friends, I got a little upset over it but in the end I said it will be good for him, ...

Why did my ex treat me like garbage? How can I forget about him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I was in love with my ex and would've done anything for him. But all he did was treat me like dirt. He'd insult me in front of friends, ignored me at parties, flirt with other women in front of me, always put me last, and was never once romantic ...

How do I earn his trust back after I kissed his best friend after we had broken up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - ok. me and my boyfriend broke up like 3 weeks ago. but i started liking one of his bestfriends. we kissed in the hallway at school and my ex was mad at me. see the thing is we dated for over a year and we love each other. how do i tell him im sorry ...

Me and my girlfriend both cheated on each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Its almost the end of 2010. In February of this year, my girlfriend admitted to me on a drunken night, two guys took advantage of her and they both had sex with her within minutes. Since she told me, I in returned confessed that I had cheated on...

I don't want to break up with him, but I cant take his flirting with other girls anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Hi everyone me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 weeks but its our 2nd time dating, before it lasted 3 weeks and i really really like him like a lot and he treats me really bad. he flirts with other girls in front of me even when were holding ...

My sister bullies me and undermines me all the time, What can I do to cope with this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I badly need your help in coping with my sister. She's always bossing me around and tries to play spoilsport in whatever i do. It started very early when she even tried to sexually assualt me. I was 10 at that time and all i could do was run away ...

He beat me, should I stay with him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - im 14 and me and my bf have been dating for about 4 weeks now and i have a problem write ino im young but me and my bf have sex quite alot (this will make sense later) but he asked me if i wanted to come round after school on our last day but i ...

We weren't together then so why does it worry me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - My ex bf and I were broken up for a year and got back together 7 months ago and everything is great now. I found out right before we got back together he slept with another girl... it was while we were broken up but still sleeping together. This has ...

Do I risk telling my client that he has extremely bad breath?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - it feels so mean to having to ask this, but how can I handle it? I have a great client, he provides me with a continuous stream of research work. He's well mannered, always a gentleman. When I've finished the research i get it all ready, and I drop ...

Jealous girlfriend , my fault I hit her ?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is bi polar and jealous. She caught me with porn and got really mad about it she wol't let me have female friend and I don't care about that because I don't want her to have male friends so we made a deal no friends of oppisite sexes. ...

He says that all I do is bitch at him but I'm just trying to help him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year... I love him very much and want to spend my life with him... But he doesn't make the right decisions for his life... He's scared of having cancer, but he smokes a pack if not more of cigarettes a day, ...

I have social anxiety but want to ask this guy out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - First off, a bit of background: I have social anxiety. I used to just be shy but its developed into a complete phobia. Its a problem for sure, but it isnt severe to the point where I cant go out of the house. The problem is that no one really knows ...

For the last 2 years she hasn't showed me any love or affection

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Been with girlfriend 4 years, she is 25. She says she loves me but for last 2 years she wont show me affection, or show her feelings for me, wont hold hands in public, wont kiss,denies we are dating if anyone asks and, makes me feel so bad that I ...

I just need a second opinion because my thoughts are not always rational

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Right, I feel like a sleaze and know I am one... So please don't act as though I don't know... To start at the beginning, I had a boyfriend. I slept with him and he pretty much left me straight after he got "what he wanted".I was heartbroken....

Is this behavior attention seeking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend has these hits of feeling bad, and she makes up depressing things in her head and then converts them to reality and gets really shitty about it and then ends up taking it out on me. So I try to ignore it, and it usually works. B...

If he loves me, why doesn't he fight for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for ten months tomorrow. things have been rocky for a long while. about 6 months ago i tried discussing with him the fact that i wasnt really happy like i used to be, that he used to make so much effort, ...

I feel she's going to dump me. And I don't know what to do about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - I've been with my girl friend for 4 months now and I love her more then anything. But she never seems to notice me. I mean I got her a nice £8 watch for Xmas. She got me the black eyed peas album. I feel like I haven't got her enough. She doesn't ...

Hard to let go of past, current bf kept me on side before we got back together and slept with other people

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23 December 2010 (F) - Hi Everyone. I wrote here months ago about my ex BF at the time was dating his ex soon after we broke up , but always kept me around and made me think he wanted to break up with her to be with me again. Everyone thought I should just move on and ...

Is it me? Is he depressed? He won't open up to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for about 6 weeks now. Nothing is official, but he has told his friends and mum about me and everyone we work with knows about us. I am somewhat confused though. He spends alot of his time in his room and has sometime...

What should I do. My husband receives pictures from women, of women, on his phone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Do I trust my husband? I really do have trust issues when it comes to my husband. I don't want to leave my guard down, I guess to protect myself. My husband is always texting, all the time. Constantly checking his texts. The other night I was sett...