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Archived questions from: 16 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I just can't get intellectual stimulation from him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for about 15 months. Before we decided to take that step, we were best friends for about 5 years. The problem is a few months ago, we began to fight a lot. Last month, I finally decided I cant be in such an unhealthy ...

My boyfriend needs a place to stay, I want my parents to take him in!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We are very happy together. The problem is he has a bad home life to the point that he had to leave and move in with a friend. Now that hes at his friends house new problems have arrived because ...

Why can't my ex learn from all the wrong he has done to me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - why wont my ex wont realize all the stuff hes done to me really messed with my head and physical fitness?.... Ok well i been off and on with my ex and hes really always talked to girls behind my back didnt treat me right. Until i assumed i had enou...

My best friend and roommate's boyfriend has ruined our friendship! Should I move out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - I need some advice, I have lost my best friend and it wasn’t even my fault. My best friend and roommate Beckie (not her real name) started dating this guy called Caleb (not his real name) who is basically a jerk, he cheats on her and he is ...

I don't want to watch my friend get hurt by this obvious player!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - hello i was just wondering what everyones opinion on this guy would be.Its a man that my friend is somewhat talking to and we cant seem to figure him out. ill call him J. So for starters she is in a relationship and has been for the past three y...

I want to leave my boyfriend for my best friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - Well...i have been carrying this burden for too long, so here goes. I was in a relationship for 9 months when i cheated on my boyfriend. Why? Because i was in an emotionally abusive relationship....because i was weak to walk away. I kisse...

He didn't tell me he has baggage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - dear cupid, i have been with my boyfriend for 4years now. i recently found out that he has a 6year old child who he didnot tell me about from the start. i actually asked him on our first date 4years ago if he had a child and he said no. he only...

Is he just a moody guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - Okay so im in a strange situation, I am at uni and living with three other girls and a guy. Me and this guy have some history and used to be really close, he was there for me at a time when i was vulnerable and lonely and our friendship is ...

2 guys, so little time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - [Mod Note: 2 questions combined from poster] I talk to my best guy friend about basically everything. I ask him for advice on guys to, and he always gives good advice. We go to different schools now, and my school has dances with a differen...

Can sex or my penis size ruin my relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, I just started to go out with my girlfriend, and she seems like the greatest girl in the world except for one huge problem. At times she can be very sweet and caring and there are other times where she can be very judgmental. She ...

Talking to his ex......again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - Last summer, my boyfriend (lets call him T) and I had to be long distance for about 3 months because of school. During those months, his ex got back in contact with him. Now, T met this girl on some social networking site. At the time, she was li...

I don't want our relationship to end but I do need to think about the well being of my little girl.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - I'm having a lot of issues here I really need some help. I'm engaged to marry this guy. But I'm not so sure if its such a good idea anymore. I have been with him for a year now and we did date in high school. We still act like a new couple and love ...

I want him back but he does not believe in us anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - Hello . My boyfriend and I just broke up. Here is our story. I was married with a child when I met him. For 2 years we lived our love in the dark, and far from each others. He is my great love, and vis versa... Last August, I decided to finally ...

He got really demanding when I was giving him oral, has he been watching too much porn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - when my bf and i had sex the other day he asked me for a bj and i accepted but he got really demanding. i think he watches too much porn he says he doesn't but i have seen him download it before. What should i do?...

We love each other but there is not that 'spark' and we are never comfortable around each other! Can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now, he is a really great guy and everything but i always feel like we are not comfortable with each other i feel like i can't be myself around him and am pretty sure he feels the same way. Its ...

I'm seeing my friends mom as I have in the past, but now she's acting distant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (M) - ok i got a friend same age as me i started seeing his mom in seceret a few years ago we got close well we had a falling out imoved away as did they shortly after out of the blue she calls me up and offers me the spare room i move to ohio take the ...

What constitutes an emotional affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - What constitutes an emotional affair? Where's the fine line of being good friends versus having an emotional affair with a friend of the opposite sex. My fiancee and I were just discussing this and realized that some of our friends have not...

Am I stupid to trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - I've been dating my Bf for 9 months now, We've been in a long distance relationship between europe and asia now for 3 months, Last week I met him for the first time since the long distance commenced. I found out that he had a one night stand (a...

If we stay together, how can we rebuild trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - If you read my last plea for help, you know my situation consists of my latest boyfriend coming forward to tell me he cheated. We've since then Nov 12th, split and I have not talked to him since. Many think 'once a cheater, always a cheater', but ...

Friends of the opposite sex when you are in a relationship.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - Hello... My fiancee and I were talking in regards to having friends of the opposite sex. He was close to his classmates back in highschool about 25 years ago. Most of them were females. He also had a next door neighbor family with whom his family w...

Please help me get the love of my life back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy on the internet. I'm not actually the prettiest of all but he accepts me for who I am and that's what makes him special. We often chat online and sometimes we talk on the phone. One day, he wanted to meet me in person. We met one ...

How can I forget about her after she cheated on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

16 December 2010 (M) - I'm an international student in this country, and I met my ex-girlfriend in the university before almost three months now. She is less than 2 years older than me. since we have been together my love to her became more and more deep everyday...

Is it worth pursuing her anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (M) - So theres this girl and i like her a lot. about a month ago everything was good and she seemed to be very interested in me, she was very flirty and her face lit up whenever she saw me. Then about two weeks ago i started to get the vibe that ...

Move Forward or Move out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (M) - So my story goes like this. My girlfriend and I started having some major problems around March of 2010, which culminated in May. We were having alot of trouble because she was generally unhappy with her job, and kept bringing problems home. After ...

I think I'm with the wrong person and don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm 23 and living with my boyfriend of two and a half years. I really think I'm with the wrong person, but I don't know what to do. We have been living together since about three months into our relationship and it's been a mess the whole...

I don't know how I should feel now......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (M) - During the start of my junior year in high school I saw this girl in one of my classes. I thought she was really cute at the time and she would stare at me sometimes too. Its really corny but It sort of felt like love at first sight I guess. All I ...

He has given up on us! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - We were engaged to be married soon after a whirlwind romance and something terrible happened in my life and I turned to him for support. I was very hurt when he wouldn't talk it or offer me comfort or help. I foolishly called off the wedding and ...

Is it better to be friends with your ex-boyfriend than having him out of your life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - Please help me. I am confused. My boyfriend and I are together for 1 .5 years already. We are in a serious and happy relationship. Yes, there are some misunderstandings but we resolved them all in the end. Just few days ago, we argue about some...

How do I get him to want me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - Hi. Okay so a few weeks ago my boyfriend of eight and a half weeks told me that he loved me but didnt have romantic feelings for me anymore. He said he would try his hardest to get them back. Now, three weeks later he broke up with me. The other day ...

My children's father abandoned us, but his brother stepped in and saved the day.....is it wrong that we have fallen in love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - I am a single mother of two children. The father of my children abandoned us with nothing. No food, no money, and no secure shelter. When my children's father brother found out about the situation he provided us food and shelter. In this process we ...

He has a thing for younger girls and I am worried he might try it on with me now I'm 18!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - So I am a senior in high school and 18. For two years now I have been singing with diffrent musicians at diffrent venues. Now that I am "legal" I am able to sing in bars....I have a new musician Im working with named "tom"...tom is 33..he has an ...

I want to work it out but he's so stubborn to change!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - what kind of relationship am i in? hello reader i've been in a relationship for two yrs.and my boyfriend is crazy! he and i now live together with his mom! which she's not the problem actually we bond good now bette than last year when we first go...

He wants a baby and I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - I'm only 18 years old and my boyfriend wants us to have a baby, and he is 21. i told him so many times that i dont want a child right now because i want to go to college and stuff. so i told him that we could just so he can be happy. but he didnt ...

Girlfriend gets mad when I try to kiss her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (?) - i don't get my gf i try to kiss her and she gets mad. i get frustrated when she doesn't kiss me and i only try to kiss her a few times a week! i tell her i love and she either says "Suck my d**K" or dido or dildo to be funny but never an i love you ...

Love can make life eithr heaven or hell. I love her so much ill hurt someone for her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 December 2010 (M) - Hi i am Jason Im 18 I have this really great girl we are togetha for 7 months. She makes me feel great about myself, she loves me, thats my opinion im sure she loves me. Months later she started to cheat on me with an ex-friend naython and my ...

When I bring up marriage, he says "its not happening right now!"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - We have been dating 4 and a half years. We have a 1 and a half year old child. And just recently bought our first house together. When ever I bring up marriage he tells me its not happening right now. What do i do? Do I keep in this relationship? I ...

Every time we argue he tells me to sleep on the couch or leave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - so I am not sure what to do about my relationship as of now were engaged,but he is having tons of problems with his ex and baby mama she is causing lots of drama for him and I battling court, visitation, child support. We have a child in common too. ...