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writes:Well..Ive been dating this guy for about 4 months now and am so in love, but like every other relationship we have our share of problems. In the beginning I wasnt the only girl that he was seeing at the time. He lied about the other girl even when I found out about her. He finally admited the truth that they "had" a realtionship but not any more, there just best friends now, When I was about to dump him! Hes goes by her every sunday, and denied it from me, until I had proof I saw him with my own eyes!For her christmas gift he bought her a gold chain and a laptop!! Should I think that they still have something going on or could they really be just "best friends" now. Should I believe and trust him after all the other times he lied about her?
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reader, Sex_counsellor  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 If I was you, I would question him about why he continues to lie about this other girl with you. Also as he has a history of cheating you need to watch that it doesn't happen again. I also think that he is going a little OTT on gifts at Xmas if this girl is "just a friend". Explain to him how jealous this is making you and that you don't have a problem with them being friends but you think there could be more going on.
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reader, Blod +, writes (21 December 2010):
 I don't think this guy sounds trustworthy to me. If he was seeing another girl when you first got together, doesn't that suggest that you can't trust him? He keeps on lying to you about this girl which sounds as if there could be something going on. So I think it was right for you that you were going to dump him. Even if there's nothing going on between them, he keeps lying to you. That isn't what someone wants in a boyfriend.
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