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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

The cracks are showing in this relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Hope someone can help... I just want an outside opinion to shed some light on things. I've been going out with my boyfriend for over 2 yrs now. It's my first relationship. We started going out just before I went to uni and it became a long distance ...

My boyfriend doesn't like me posting our pictures on Facebook!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I'm Asian and I have an european boyfriend, we have been together for couple of years. He hates facebook and I like facebook. I have been away from home for 2 years and facebook help me to share things to my friend. Its the only way for me to ...

Our 2 year old daughter is the only thing keeping us together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - okay so i am only 19 years old and i have been with my bf alomost four years now, we have a two year old daughter and i have been living with him since i was 16, he is 20 years old. I love our daughter and i would never regret having her. However ...

What do you do when you both love each other but neither of you are in a good place in life to have a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - What do you do when you're in love with a boy, he is in love with you back, but you are both not in good places in your lives to have relationships? I am not in a great place in my life, graduated from college but no job, few friends, and the last ...

We've had so many ups and downs I don't even know if it's worth saving anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I am 22 years old now. I dated my boyfriend when we were both 19 years old and he was away in the army. We didn't have a great relationship then (mainly long distance), but I was stupid and very immature..as he was too. I ended up dating ...

Guy dumped me two times!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy at the not best place in his life (recent ex-con). I didn't judge him for what he had been through, and thought he was just a normal guy, and the kind of rugged and traditional guy I could see myself with. He was older and seemed so ...

Should I see a doctor? I cannot seem to get over this violent lying abusive man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Why is it that when I break up with my boyfriend of 5years, I start missing him. I know that I could do so much better but why do I linger..he has been abusive in the past towards me not my kids who aren't his, thank god they have never witnessed ...

He promised me "no lies!"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - how can I found out about the lies that my husband has told me from day one, about himself,what he did for a living about his health, what he have or don't have. He keeps me in the dark about very thing with the house hold bills or what's what with ...

She needs space, but why does she keep me so close in her life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - I will try to keep this short, but it going to be a little hard.... Okay, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 and half years (She was 16 and I was 18 when started, now 22 and 24). We never really had too many problems and I know a lot of ...

Why should everything be on his terms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - My bf is very traditional. He wants to do everything in stages - which is nice and all but these stages are very far spaced. . The first gap is being together 5yrs before he'll consider sharing a house/apartment with me. I want to have my first ...

Have I ruined my relationship forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Hello. I think I may have messed up big time with my boyfriend. We were together a year and a half and he would sometimes say things to me jokingly but it hurt my feelings, or he would continue to bring up my past before him (like the fact that I ...

I don't like my girlfriend drinking

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been going out for 9 months now and I never liked drinking but she likes getting "drunk" with her friends in miami every new years. She has said in the past that she has blacked out 3 times from drinking too much and I don't ...

I'm in a Belle, Edward and Jacob situation! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - August 2nd 2008, I met a 24 year old man at my church as he came to preach/sing. (my EDWARD) NOTHING HAPPENED, just began to speak as friends over myspace and such. (he lives in FL and me In MD) Then he came a second time in November 24th or ...

My ex tells me he loves me even though he is with someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I feel like such a saddo... but I have been on and off with this guy for 3 years. Lost my virginity to him, shared all of my horrific past with him and I really do love him. Here's the catch... he slept with 2 of my best friends :( ... but you know ...

What's with this threesome double standard?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend told me he'd like to try a threesome. I told him I'd do it but that I'd also like a threesome but with another guy. He went from totally enthusiastic that I said yes to furious. I told him I didn't want him to do anything with the other ...

My ex wants me back, but I don't want him to think he can play with me when he wants! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - so i have been with this guy for 3 years and i love him so much. the thing is we havent been the same, he cheasted when we first started to date and ive forgave him for that but now i cant realy trust him, and on top of that last year i left him for ...

I know how much my past hurts him, but now his behaviour is hurting me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I am 22 years old girl. I am deeply in love with my boyfriend since 6 months ago. He's an international student, we both met in college roughly one year ago. It was a romantic how we first met, but we didn't start our relationship since ...

Does she still feel the same way about me after what I did?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Hi. My ex girlfriend and i broke up about 4 weeks ago and shes with someone else. She made me mad about 2 days ago and i went off on her and i told her That i seriously didnt want to see her again ever. She txted me later that night saying "I was ...

How can I be in two places at once?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I am taking care of my father who is in his eighties and recently came out of the hospital. I am not so worried about taking time off from work, but I worry that my boyfriend is lonely (now two states away) and though he understands, I wonder if ...

He is still not totally over his ex, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a couple of months. I am in love with him, I can picture having a life and future with this guy. But a part of him is still not over his ex. She was kinda his girl that got away. I told him if the main reason as to why ...

Her behaviour with this new guy makes me question if her feelings for me are fake.....Is she keeping me as a reserve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Recently, i started to like this girl very much and i have very strong feelings for her.I can barely stop thinking about her at any given moment in a day. We have been talking to each other daily, we talk about normal stuff.She even asked me on...

I feel as if I am falling for him all over again but I'm worried about his girlfriend of 10 months

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I recently contacted an old love on fb. We've been corresponding for months but havent seen each other for 24 yrs. We had a brief passionate fling but I ended it as I was already in a relationship..he said I broke his heart. We've both been ...

He's so cold towards me! Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Hi there, So I have been with my guy for about a year and four months. He's really changed. He doesn't want to speak to me anymore when I go home for 5days and he snaps at me when I try talking to him. Clearly he doesn't miss me. Does anybody know ...

Lunatic ex wife!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - How are you supposed to react when the ex-wife is insane, constantly texting, calling, leaving nasty voicemails saying the kid needs something and how terrible of a person I am to their kid, when she agonised my son for ten years calling him names, ...

Alcohol Problems In Relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - On a worldwide scale, alcohol abuse directly accounts for almost two million deaths. With drink related disorders, such as cirrhosis of the liver, murders, and assaults running into tens of millions. You can find many more statistics on th...

What dod I do about these petty arguments? They're ruining a good thing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I know in a relationship its healthy to have arguments sometimes but i hate those sometimes. I hate fighting with her. I love her to death and it just seems like those sometime fights r over little things. Im glad there not big things but i hate ...

Will this perpetual on/off relationship ever work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Can two insecure people have a healthy relationship? My partner and I have both had bad experiences with relationships in the past (my partner more than me) and so we both have various insecurities. Those insecurities seem to manifest themselv...

Boyfriend's brother died, he became distant then ended it. How can I fix this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I'm 17 and I got my first boyfriend a year and a half ago. We're still together, but recently he's been acting differently around me. I feel like now he doesn't care about me at all. He started acting differently when his brother died a couple of ...

What is his deal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - lately i have been so confused; the guy i like seems so on and off. he flirts with me and the whole bit, but when confronted with it he just kinda shrugs it off. he's got me spinning so bad i'm basically tying in knots! it breaks down like th...

Do I act on my feelings? I'm worried I might be stuck in the friend zone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4901 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Hi, Heres my story. I met this girl through mutual friends about a year ago. We became very close friends very quickly. Eventually began to feel very attracted too her, and she felt the same way. The problem was that at the time she was not into...

He still hasn't called it quits with her, even though he knows that I'm fully prepared to love and be with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I love him. About a month ago my very good friend asked me to the movies. I accepted and when I arrived asked how his GF was doing, we will call her Sarah. Sarah decided they needed a break two days previous...so he was upset. I ended up tryi...

Have I blown my second chance with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Hi everybody. My girlfriend broke up with me in early July because she was no longer happy the way the relationship was going. Basically I wasn't doing the things she liked with her. I was not appreciating her. I was taking her for granted. I ...

I slept over at his place and he pulled out a vibrator! Why would he have this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - My ex had a really small um, "member", mentioning only for reference, it wasn't an issue. We are both in our 30's. So, when I slept over at his place and we had sex and he pulled out a vibrator. All I could think of the whole time is...where it ...

Two lives, two women......who does he really love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Ten years ago I met a guy and we quickly fell in love ..long story short he became violent, controlling along with plenty of other issues. At that time we were living together and I had a young child in the home. With that said my family became ...

I've lost the love of my life and I just can't cope!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I have lost the love of my life and I don't know how to get over it. Or over him. I miss him so much it's killing me inside. I'm 32 and stuck in dead end job living in room share. I long to settle down and meet someone but I don't see it hap...

I'm wondering what I'm doing wrong in my life to be so unhappy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Hi, I am sad. Feeling disturbed, keeping up appearances. I am 42, man. (Remember the Answer to the Question in the Hitch Hickers Guide to the Galaxy?) My problem is, that I feel alone. I am in a relationship now for about six year, we ...

One part of me wants to call it quits, the other part wants to stick it out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - This is going to be sort of long, so please bare with me! For starters, I am 20 years old and have been engaged to a great guy for about six months. We have been together almost two years, and we recently moved in together about a month before we ...

I caught him acting deceitful but I did it while spying

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I'm involved with a man that I'm deeply in love with but do not trust. In the past he hid the fact that he was still with his ex and had a secret text relationship with her (if not more). He promised he would change and after 5 breakups things ...

My best friend has just cut me out of his life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - This is the same question but I am going to tell the longer story this time.. I just need to get it off my chest to be honest. About 3 years ago I met a guy on a social networking site out of the blue, I added him to my msn and that was it really, ...

I love my best friend but he has a girlfriend.....What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - This is long, so please bear with me. I really need some good advice and I just can't reveal this to anyone I know. I've never thought about posting my story up and have only been reading through other people's heartaches... but it's time I let this...

Should I get him to admit that he needs help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for a year now and at first he was the most wonderful guy I felt blessed to be with him so soon after getting out of another relationship. Then eventually he started to become angry at me for everything ...

How do I cope with the fact my bf & I hardly see each other & how do I help him out of his depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I'm writing because I want to learn how to cope with the fact that my bf and I hardly see each other. We used to see each other frequently (he used to work the night shift 6pm-6am) and they recently changed his sched. to 6am-6pm. He's a night ...

I don't know about this relationship...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Well I just got done talking to my gf and she seems to not want this relationship, she always changing pictures, and then she told me her dad does not want her to stay with me for even 2 weeks. Then she wants to blame me for getting offended...