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Archived questions from: 20 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He wants to have a kid but I'm definitely NOT ready for it! Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and he asked me if I would have a kid with him. We are both 15 and I just laughed it off as if he was joking and when he didn't mention it for the rest of the night I thought it was a joke. The next ...

Why is my boyfriend doing this? Is he cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Why is my boyfriend doing this? Is he cheating? my boyfriend left his facebook on and i went through his messages..i felt soo bad but am glad i did cos i found out hes been talking to lots of girls...those girls hardly have any clothes on in their...

I don't know how to approach him about the problems we're having without him blowing up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I have a problem, my boyfriend and I have been dating a year. Lately, we have been having problems, most start off as little tiffs that escalate to huge blow outs. I'm tired of it and I know he is too. But, I don't know what to do about it or how to ...

My ex smashed my confidence and I have all the insecurities in the world!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - My ex used to call me fat sometimes, even though i am only 5'3 and 125 is that normal, and sometimes he would be like oh i don want to have sex with you b/c ur getting bigger. or like put some makeup on.. everyone says im beautiful and he would too ...

I feel his friends are more important to him than I am...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - well im 18 yrs old i turned 18 oct 7th and ive been with this guy every since i was 15. i got pregnant and had my son at 16, so he is basically all the men i knew, he is about to be 21 i am very faithful to him, never lie or cheat or nun to him i ...

What can I do to get him to stop 'sexting' other females?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hi. I am 45 years old and am dating a man age 46. He bartends on the side and know many woman. I do go into his phone every now and then and find evidence of him texting and receiving texts from females some of which are dirty (sexting) and ...

He's not talking to me much, does that mean he's cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (?) - So im pregnant and i told my boyfriend that i am moving. the thing is before i told him he bought me a stuffed animal and chocolate. so i finally told him that im moving. and he thought about us living together. then i told him lastnight that ...

It's been 2 months since we've had sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - I realy love here and she loves me . We are together for like 2 jears now she's 22 i'm 21 the sex is getting worse and less and its always the same i talk to here about it and i asked her if she still thinks i'm sexy ? or is she seeing ...

Is she out to sabotage my love life??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I have a friend who Ive known since I was 12. Shes one of my bestfriends, love her to death. But lately Ive been feeling a little funny about her. Years ago when I was in highschool, I had a boyfriend. Things were good between us until she came ...

Is he cheating and am I wrong for wanting more??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I had been out of a 7 year relationship with a previous man of whom would never marry me, but expected to live with me and have children, I was dumb enough to have one. The relationship was over for 7 months. I had met another man one night ou...

Is it healthy/normal for a man to have so many female friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Is it weird for a guy to have a lot of friends that are girls, and whose closest friends are girls? Is there ever a time when this is perfectly healthy and NOT a red flag?? The last two guys I've dated have had mostly female friends. At the...

Should I leave him because of his mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I realised that my boyfriend mother look down on me as I studied Chinese language as my major degree while my boyfriend is a engineer. She thinks that I won't get a good job as a Chinese graduate. However, I don't think so I don't want to be a ...

Does my sexual openess turn him off? The lack of sex is corroding my love for him....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. Me and my partner have agreed we have a very strong emotional connection and love, but not sexually. At the start of our relationship it was great! He wa really into me and we'd have sex twice in the same moring sometime...

She is married but said she wants to marry me and have children with me, but now she has told me she needs some time! Why the change of mind so suddenly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, please help me clear out my thought. I'm apologize for it kind of long. here is my situation. 7 years ago, me and this girl were really good friend, always hangout together and shared all our up and down with each other. we both have ...

Am I wrong for disliking her? Did I actually cheat on her as she claimed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, I find it funny that most of the people on this site who answer questions often times have some problems of their own - and since I've commented on a few people's stories myself, I felt it was fair that I shared my own. It woul...

Why does my ex text me? What does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - why does my ex boyfriend text me? what does it mean? some back ground on the relationship. we cared about each other very much and then he found out he had a child from an ex and he was freakin out and i couldnt deal with it and we decided to sep...

My daughter was taken advantage of by my cousin, how do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Our daughter of 18-21yrs recently went to Australia to stay with a cousin of mine, he is a man in his 30's and a devoted Christian (he even took her to church). My husband and I were worried about her going as she has had what seemed to be a late ...

He's married, but I want him back. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - i had been in affair with married man for 7 months. i knew having sex with married man is no good. but he was a good looking 47 years man and he has a nice body. first, he drove me home after work and he was saying he had cheated his wife befo...

Should I trust her? Says she she loves me, but dates another.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - My ex gf say said she loved, then a guy walks up on us, and turns out she was on a date with that guy that night? we hung out almost every day for a week, then we talk, but don't do see each other, then the next night shes on a date with a guy, ...

Why does he always criticize me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I never really understand my boyfriend he criticize my past a lot. I only really been out with like 2 guys in my life excluding him and he always seems to find a way to make me feel bad. He always mentions that he can't believe those are the guys I ...

My boyfriend becomes verbally abusive when he drinks

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - When I first met my boyfriend he was always a gentleman and always made sure to say the sweetest things. As time went by we began to hang out and I began to fall for his act of kindness. Off the bat I knew this relationship was not an attraction ...

The always-in-trouble boyfriend, the lover and pregnant me...help me out of this mess!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Alright ive been with my boyfriend for a year and 6 months,the first year we wer very good i was the happest girl in the world.hes a great guy weve never had any trust issues we are alwas together. after the first year we moved out together that was ...

Should I give him another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - So me and this guy are always on and off, he's only 2 years old than me * 1st time- we hooked up, he stopped talking to me * 2nd time- we kinda worked things out and talked for a little then we hooked up again, then we ended things after a lit...

My girlfriend compliments in public and it embarrasses me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4882 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - I have this girlfriend, "Dana" (I keep the names of the people in my questions fake, but consistent). We're realy happy. One problem. She's always making comments about my "nice butt" and "cut arms" and it embarrasses me. I'm not shy, but I a...

If he loves me then why does he call me all these names?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - My boyfrind says he loves me but calls me all these names. we go out n evey lil thing I do bothers him we live together n wen we get home its a non ending battle he gets mad at me he tells me he hates me n den wants to have sex n den he gets mad n ...

My ex, who I split up with 3 years ago, wants me to be a dad to her baby! How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - I have a friend "Agenol". He moved from our city, to Britain about 2 years ago. Last year, he came back to our city in America for a brief vacation. While here, he "got freaky" with my ex "Daniela". I don't care that they were together; I'm not ...

Crying after sex -- has anyone else experienced it and what does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over seven months. We became physically intimate after two months and things were great in other respects, too (ie. having fun hanging out, lots of laughs, getting to know each other and each other's ...

Star crossed lovers or friends? What's the best advice to give?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4882 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - Right so, here is a situation. My friend, who is a girl, has just broken up with her boyfriend of a year and a half. Now, she is an extremely attractive young girl, funny and intelligent. All of that. However, I can't bear to see her upset and gi...

Addicted to my ex's FaceBook, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - Its been two weeks since I broke up. I have managed to get her to talking terms(though on facebook). Apologised and been forgiven my wrong doing. She told me she doesn't want a come back and I have decided to wait because I love her. She has been ...