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*abycakes345
writes:im 14 and me and my bf are in year 10 and the satme set but the other day in spanish he was sitting with his mates and i was sittin with my mate on the other side of the room and he made a comment about my weight im not fat i juss have an eatin disorder and are really skinny but he said that i am so skinny tht if he banged(had sex not hit) me again i would proberly snap in 2 and for me im insecure anyway and wen we got out of class he put his arms around me and kissed me but i pushed him away and he asked wot was wrong and i said heard you and he said he was joking but i just walked away we didnt talk the rest of the night anyway i guess what im asking is can i trust him again or will he just keep making remarks help i dont wanna break up with him cause i luv him but helpp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (22 December 2010):
 You have to let him know that he can't make comments like that. Even as a joke. Because you're both still quite young, it's understandable that stupid and hurtful things may be said, so give him a second chance because you're both still learning about life in general. But he needs to know that to keep you, he needs to respect you and he needs to know to respect women for future relationships as well,
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (21 December 2010):
 You need to tell him that remarks like that are not acceptable. You wouldn't go and make remarks like that about him.
I'm a big believer in second chances, but only you can make that final decision. I hope you are getting some help with your eating disorder anyway, even if it doesn't seem to bad, it could still spiral out of control.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): I think that if he did hurt you, you should just wait, dont talk to him. If he loves you too he will understand he did something wrong and it will bother him you'r mad and not talking to him, he will apologize and he won't repeat that, and then I think u'll be able to trust him.
You can also tell him that he hurted you and ask him not to do it again.
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