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writes:I have been with my partner for 5years and recently he says that the relationship we have together is making him depressed as we are not right for each other. The thing is he breaks up with me every other month and i dont know whether this is 1 of his moments or not. I cant keep waiting around for him or allowing him to blame me for things that i have no control over. Should i leave him alone or fight for what we have? its so hard to give up on something that has lasted so long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): This guy will continue to behave in this way if you allow him to keep treating you like shit,move on it wont be easy but atleast you will be happy
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): I certainly would not fight for what you have, as it doesn't seem worth much. He has been messing you around and you have let him. He keeps coming back because he can, just to mess you up again. You must have got together with him when you were quite young - so it is a wrench breaking up, but you have to. Be brave, there is something better waiting out there. Call time on this boyfriend once and for all - he'll come back asking for another chance no doubt. But you have given him 5 years of your life already. I think he's run out of chances now.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 December 2010):
He's been wasting your time for so long that you cant't actually see it anymore. No relationship can be successful if you are constantly breaking up with each other. If he's treating you this way now, imagine what he'll be like in the future if you have a job and family. Just a worthless partner.
You need to move on from him now. It's not really lasted 5 years at all. It lasts two months, then he dumps you, then he comes back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): It's time to put him where he belongs. In the Thrift Store. He's raggedy.
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