New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244970 questions, 1084332 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in December, 2010, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (43), 2 (32), 3 (31), 4 (26), 5 (33), 6 (25), 7 (35), 8 (37), 9 (52), 10 (27),
11 (19), 12 (36), 13 (42), 14 (43), 15 (43), 16 (37), 17 (30), 18 (23), 19 (22), 20 (29),
21 (50), 22 (34), 23 (41), 24 (23), 25 (16), 26 (16), 27 (27), 28 (31), 29 (36), 30 (29),
31 (25),

Archived questions from: 14 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

(More questions from December, 2010)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I seriously feel as though we're drifting apart and becoming more parents and room mates rather than a family and in love. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - Hello... I'm 21 years old, mother of a 5 month old son, and in a (soon-to-be) two year relationship with a wonderful man. He's a great person and father and I wouldn't trade him for anything in the world. But lately we've been having some problems ...

What the heck is up with this guy? Does he love me? Does he hate me and like to screw with my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - What's wrong with me? Ok, been on a roller coaster with this guy for almost 9 years now. Generally, I am an intelligent, independent woman, however, this guy is my kryptonite, he is my biggest weakness. Here's the situation in a nut shell. He was...

I thought there was hope for us... but now I'm not so sure... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - three years ago I was going out with someone who cared so much about me that he wanted to marry me. I was hanging around with a bad crowd and drinking. I was given a choice stop or lose him. At the time I was in total denial of my problem and he ...

I feel so trapped in this relationship...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - Im too scared to leave my partner of 2 years. He is very abusive, he keeps threating me that he will make sure i will loose my job and that he will do something to my family. He is english and im from czech republic. My family is very importatnt to ...

Broken-hearted girl!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - heey i am a 14 year old girl who has been split up from her ex boyfriend for about 8 months now i was with him for about 8 months and i just cant get over him he treats me like crap all the time says he loves me then says he dont then has a go at me ...

I think my GF and best friend are secretly dating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - hello, i think my GF and my best friend are scretly dating behind my back, ive been with her a year and my GF and my best friend were going out with each other before, they allways make jokes about them having sex blah blah blah and say im paranoid, ...

She won't shave or trim!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - I have had multiple conversations with my wife regarding the shaving of her vag, but she will not so much as keep it trim. I've actually shaved her a few times, but I feel like it's just part of a woman's grooming process to keep it trim if that's ...

She left me after years of my asking her if she'd ever cheated on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - i need help. ive been with my woman for ten yrs and have 2 kids. ive cheated on her numerous times because i thought she cheated in the first few years of our realationship, mainly because we had sex the first nite. she used to leave me and go out ...

Everything was going so perfect, why did he do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - hey agony aunts. ok so ill get straight to the point. i broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago, i was with him for 9 months, he was my first serious boyfriend. he wasnt right for me, i knew it and so did everyone else, he constantly questioned ...

My mom is driving me up the wall! I need good advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - Ive met this wonderful guy on the internet not to mention for privacy purposes ...Anyway to make a long story short we:ve been dating for 3 months well... He;s takin me out and its been wonderful... as time went by he came to my home to meet the ...

Problems with my boyfriend and how I feel about his family, help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - Hi all, My boyfriend is a very high achiever from a very high achieving family. I am a fairly high acheiver from a very dysfunctional family. There are also cultural and religious barriers that we are trying to overcome in order for our realtio...

How do I tell my teen son about my new girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - I'm recently divorced from a long, unhappy marriage, and with a new partner whom I admittedly was involved with while my marriage was failing. I have a young teen son who has been pretty OK with the divorce, but he knows nothing about my partner. ...

I know he loves me, but he is not that attractive and it is becoming a problem....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - I am 20 years of age and my boyfriend is 23. I got to know him through a male friend of his who is also my friend. We've been together for the past one and half year. My problem is that, he is not all that handsome to me but a very caring,kind,From ...

His ex girlfriend still texts him, should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - I`ve just been in a relationship 3 months ago and now I`m with someone else that had the same ending..3months ago.My relationship ended very cruel I`ve been suffered from him but now the problem had been a bit solved.The real problem that its making ...

Can I send a card after a breakup, hoping it might make a difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - Should I send a xmas card to a woman that broke up with me in an email, "I think we should just leave things well enough alone..." It is killing me and embarrassing at my age (47) but I am still in love with her three months after our (email) ...

I sent him pictures of me in my underwear and now he is not talking to me! Should I wait for him or move on?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - Okay, So i am in 8th grade. About 3 months ago i was talking to a freshman (9th grade) that i really liked. He had dated some of the hottest girls in school so i felt like i was dreaming, no i couldnt really be talking to him. He was sweet and ...

How do I let him down gently? I don't want to be his mistress!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - Since I have been single from and on and off again replationship, I met a guy an older man that happens to be married. I should have known from the start that I shouldnt get involved with him from when I met him and my girlfrends gave me a little ...

Can't get over her bigger ex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - I can't seem to get past the fact that my girlfriend had the best sex with the guy before me, and it was largely because he was more well endowed than me. She used to say all kinds of things, like "there is such a thing as too big" and how ...

I have left her twice, and only been back together for a short time but now I find myself emotionally cheating! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - First things first, I'm 24. Now, about 5 years ago I was with this girl for about 6 months, she turned crazy and left me and all of her friends no longer talk to her and they are STILL TO THIS DAY friends with me. The day that girl and I broke...

How can I change my taste in men so I stop getting hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - i have been in one bad relationship after another, i can't seem to break the cycle! i don't know if there is something wrong with me that i'm attracted to these same type of men but they are all alike. how can i turn my tastes to a different sort so ...

I don't want to be with him but he wont accept the breakup! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - i want to break up with my boyfriend. I told him on phone because he is too much agreessive. After hearing on phone first he shown his agression till 40 mins after that i disconnected the call. Then after some time he started begging to give him one ...

She is not over her ex but I have fallen for her, should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - I am love with my friend whom I know like from a year. She recently broke up recently with her boyfriend and it was difficult for her to get over it coz she never wanted to break up. But this guy just told her that he doesn't have feelings for her ...

How can I be less possessive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - My bf of 5 months is awesome: loving, caring, smart, open minded, and we match sexually like 2 pieces of lego blocks. We are in love with each other pretty madly. We both value honesty and openness, and since we live in separate cities, it makes...

Why did he lie about a kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - dear cupid,my story is there was this guy i had a crush on for a long while,and my friend was seeing his brother ,so we all went to the movies as friends but finally the guy i liked kissed me and i kissed him back and that was it,then the next day i ...

Once trust has gone, will it ever come back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - once a womans trust is gone is that it? game over? how can trust be regained. how can you show a woman you mean what you say even though she doesnt believe a word you say. how can you show a woman youve changed if she wont even see you....

Why does she say such hurtful things when drunk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - why does my girlfriend get drunk and starts telling me i don't do anything for her and adds my sex sucks, why does hurt me this way? ...

He promised to be a better man but I still have doubts about him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - Do i stay with him or not? He cheated on me a month ago,i was angry and could not believe that he would cheat on me.When he was not working i use to take care of him, he used my car to go see the other lady.when i ask him why did he cheat, his an...

Is there a double meaning to this conversation? Should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - Hi, is my new girlfriend a masochist, or is it just sexy talk? The other day we wer talking on social networking and she said that she likes to "play", so i said that could mean a lot of things, so she said”i like to play with fire” so i said, when ...

She cant confirm if we are really over, but wont let me back in her life! What can I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - my lifes just spinning out of control. 8 months ago i had everything, although it wasnt all good on the relationship front and hadnt been since sept 09 really when our 2nd son was born. basically we fell in love and left out partners nearly 7 years ...

I'm the one that has to fit around all of his plans! How do I approach this with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

14 December 2010 (?) - My boyfriend is 21, im 20. I'm currently at university but travel back every weekend, not purely to see him, but thats one of the main factors. we used to text pretty much all day everyday for the past year that we've been going out, this made up ...

I want to leave but I really love our little girl, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - I am a American living in Thailand. I don't speak Thai and my lady partner does not speak english. Been together 7 yrs. We took in a 4 yr. old little girl that 10 yr. old now. her parents threw her away. I can't stand her continuously yelling ...

Whats wrong with me and the guys I attract?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - So this kinda goes with my last ?. But here goes. The relationship that i am in is a bad 1. We fight all the tme and its always about something dumb. He yelled at me over lettuce we had to buy in the middle of the street.how humiliating for me. And ...

Can a guy really love you if he upsets you all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - Can a guy really love you if he upsets you all the time? I am trying to work out what to do. I have been seeing this guy for nearly 3 years now. We basically have a long distance relatonship as he works abroad and only spends about 25% of his...

He said he was in love with me, but ignored me for 2 months and now I find out he has a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - hey :) uhm well i really like this guy and he really likes me too (well thats what he said) and after he told me he really likes me, he ignored me for about 2 months and i tried texting and calling him everyday... after all that i found out from h...

He likes me but doesn't want a relationship

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

14 December 2010 (F) - Ok so I came out of a long time relationship of 3 years I broke up with him because it was getting to verbal abuse and its not worth it this was about 5 months ago, so I meet this new guy we both have a common friend so he requested me over facebook ...

He came on so strong and then kept breaking things off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - I met a guy who came on really, really strong at first. Talking about falling in love with me, etc. I was a bit hesitant at first. Then, I sort of started to believe him, and started to go along with what he said. He mentioned waking up with m...

He makes me feel like its a privilege for me to marry him, should I marry him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (?) - I have been dating this guy, who is four years younger than me for two years. We had agreed on marriage, and eventually set on to start the traditional part of negotiating bride price. This was after really trying to “convince” him. We are set to ...

I'm scared of the action he will take if he finds out I cheated on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - The man I am with now helped me through my divorce and through a friends suicide. We have been together for about 10 years. I am not sure why but I cheated on him. I want to leave the first gentleman for the second one. but I am afraid of what type ...

My abusive boyfriend is controlling my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - I have an abusive boyfriend who doesnt want to break up. i dont love him anymore because i have fallen inlove with someone else. He has bit me, swore at me n even posted me half naked on facebook, the truth is i cant stand him anymore but the ...

6 weeks no contact to the day and I get an email

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - Long story short, she dumped me because I was studying for my medical exams and never had any time for her for 6 months. She said little things turned into big things and she couldn't take me not being there for her. She got a new job during that ...

My jealousy is driving me insane

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - I have feelings for a guy friend that i'm housemates with, we used to be really close, he would text me all the time, buy me presents, take me out and buy me drinks. But over the summer he got a girlfriend and told everyone but me. I found out ...

Is it OK for me to tell him 'no contact' with the girl he cheated on me with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - My bf cheated on me with the same girl, several times. He claims that he no longer has sexual relations with her, but they do talk in a friend basis. He thinks I should be ok with him hanging out with her, but I'm not okay with it at all! Should it ...

Friends or not? That's the question.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - I think she doesn't know what she wants. She admits we didn't have a bad relationship, but I smothered her, and didn't give her her space to breathe she needed. She also admits I'm a great person and was amazing. I've since met her and she says ...