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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He doesn't like me like "that" anymore. Is it over?

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29 November 2009 (F) - Hello. This is my painful and bitter sweet romance disaster. Well, my name is Jossie and I'm 18 years old. I moved to Wisconsin about 5 months ago so I attended my familys church. When I moved to wisconsin romance wasn't something I thought of. Not ...

Has he just fallen out of love with me?

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29 November 2009 (F) - hi been with my boyfriend seven months now, iv never loved anyone the way i love him. first of all things were great, he was always here for me, never let me down. now i just think hes fallen out of love with me, he still tells me he loves me, but ...

Why do women do such things?

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29 November 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, I don't know why I don't listen to what people tel me. I'd love to know a reason for my stupidity. I fell in love wit ha girl who has a boyfriend. She also fell in love with me. As a fact, yesterday she was at my place. Wonder what...

The thought of her in his bed makes me feel sick!

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29 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend's been really close to another girl and i dont know what to do. We were out yesterday and i was playing with his phone when i stumbled across some texts between him and this girl at his uni. I've met her and she seemed nice enough b...

Confusion here!! Why did he just stop calling me out the blue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 November 2009 (?) - Hello everyone! I'm having this problem and would love you guys help with this situation I'm having. First off I met this guy that's a year younger than me, and I'm 22 by the way, and from the first time we met he was up front with me about his ...

Back with my ex gf, and nothing's the same! Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - I got back together with my ex (were together 4 years)after a long drawn-out breakup in which we both had rebounds. We both made mistakes, and we both are willing to address them. She acts much differently now though: passive, unenthusiatic, ...

It's so painful that I love him and he doesn't feel the same way! What should I do?

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29 November 2009 (F) - Hi, Ive been with my boyfriend for just about a year, and we haven't approached the "love subject" well he hasn't. I love him and haven't said it, im 2 upset to because i no he won't say it back. This really hurts because obviously im in ...

This is not what I want... but I love him, why am I feeling this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Sorry about the details of name being conor and being male. A friend set this up for me. I'm actually female! Anyway my question is: I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 10 months. We've had several split ups but always 'kissed and made-up'...

I want to talk to him but can't seem to find the words

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29 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I would really appreciate some advice. My ex and I were together for 6 years, all lovely at first but he was going through a divorce at the time which took a toll on him individually and us as a couple. It didn't help that he can be ...

15 years together and he won't make a comittment!

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29 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for 15 years. We have lived together for 10 years. We have a young family and life is good, apart from one major thing. He will not make any form of commitment to me. We could afford to purchase a house but he won't. We...

How do I feel better about facing people who made my life hell?

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29 November 2009 (F) - I've recently got back together with my high school sweetheart after 5 years apart. Everything is going smoothly, but in that 5 years, I moved away to London and he stayed back home. I'm planning on moving back home soon as it is so we don't have ...

The baby was born 11 months after I was home, is the baby mine?

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29 November 2009 (M) - I have a question when i was home from Iraq last year 2008 the last time me and my wife had sex was april 4th 2008 when i cam back from iraq ahe told me she was preg and then on March 1st 2009 our son was born her due date was feb 26 2009 now is ...

We kissed, we cuddled, but since then not even a whisper from him!

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29 November 2009 (F) - he drove for an hour to see me.. we went for a ride and started kissing.. i asked him what he wants from me.. he said he doesn't know.. he wants to get to know me then decide. i haven't heard from him since thursdays night.. am confused..s...

The sex is great but I want a REAL man!

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29 November 2009 (F) - I can't help myself! My on-again-off-again boyfriend is smart, funny, and handsome. But he also smokes and drinks a LOT and rarely has time for me because he's a "writer". Every time I want to do something he has to stay home working on his ...

He stole my girl but says he will find me a new one!

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29 November 2009 (M) - hey my story began 1 year ago i used to had 2 best friendz and we used to share everything even our emails so the contacts are the same. one day one of them gave me a girl email because he said he had fighted with her and he dont wanna to talk with ...

My sick boyfriend is ignoring me, so I am ignoring him back

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29 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has been ill all week, but he's just started to ignore me. For the past couple of days he hasn't replied to my texts and I haven't heard from him at all. I stopped texting him about a day ago because I thought he was trying to tell m...

I told her I wasnt ready, and that she felt lust not love, will she talk to me again

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29 November 2009 (M) - Welcome, This is my life, Im Dave 16 and 6 months old, Tash is 16 and 11 months old Im gonna write the situation, and Id be very thankful if you could give me the next steps I could follow. There is this girl called Tash, her and I are ...

Houston, I think I have a "space" problem

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29 November 2009 (M) - what does it mean when my wife says 'i need my own space'?...

When we are sober he says he doesn't want a girlfriend, but its a different story when we have been drinking

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29 November 2009 (F) - i'm in love with my best friend. i have been for a year and a bit. it's that simple. i'm just, flat out in love with him. he said he had interest in me when we first met almost 2 years ago. a few months later, i was really dead set on being with ...

I say Hi but he acts shy

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29 November 2009 (F) - can someone help i like this boy but hes kepts ignoring me for no reason iv asked him if iv done anything wrong and he says i havent at first if he saw me he would have waved or smiled or said hi but now he says nothing and if i see him he looks ...

He is my friend but wants to be more

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29 November 2009 (F) - Hey dudes i need ur help!! i have this guy whos a really good friend but he keeps telling me that he has feelings for me, when he is really drunk he starts telling everyone that we wud make a really nice couple and people totally disagree and the...

I have a LDR but am drawn towards somebody else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hey, i'm in a relationship at the minute, have been with him for a month now..although at the minute he's in a different country and he isn't moving over here until next year, so it's a long distance relationship. The way i feel at the minute, b...

My ex is blocking me on MSN and facebook and I don't know why

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29 November 2009 (M) - this might take long so please bare with me my ex is not talking to me and is ignoring me. we went out for 6 months and broke up 8 months ago and we were really good friends and we talked alot. she lives down south now so we text eachother and ...

I am always the guy's friend, but never his girlfriend

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29 November 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, well im 18 years old and just feeling down in the dumps lately :( i can't seem to get a boyfriend or even a guy that likes me i dont know what to do now, i just feel really depressed all the time about it. im not a shy girl a...

Hubby went home to mother, but sometimes still sleeps with me

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29 November 2009 (F) - hi My husband recently moved out and back to his mum's, things hadn't been that great for a while but i never expected this. He recently starting going out with a new bunch of friends ones whom i never ever met and this used to really annoy me...

After four years I am still in love with my ex girlfriend

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29 November 2009 (M) - Going back 4-5 years ago i had split with my ex and we both went on our own ways. both she and i have had a few different partners and am willing to look past that obviously, its a long time. the hard part here is that ever since we split as i go...

I have nowhere else to go, so I am stuck, how can I get out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I was having trouble, switching to dad's house to mom's house. I didn't know how to get on my own. I was living at mom's place and things went bad.. I was deciding on if I should live with dad again or stay with mom. I met a guy and we connected. ...

His new wife and I just don't get along. What's the best way to handle this?

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29 November 2009 (F) - I have a new question, what I do? My ex is still in love with me, but i am not with him, it only goes as far as him staring at me at holidays ect, for instance we were married 19 years then i divorced him he was hitting me and jealous all the time. ...

My jailbird husband holds a get out of jail card, but I have moved on

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29 November 2009 (F) - I have a very complicated situation. Most people would say it is very clear cut but to me it isn't. I married the man of my dreams, who I was very much in love with. Eight months after we married, he strangled me and beat me up. He called the police ...

How long should I wait, I have given him a week already

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend said he needs time . That he needs to become a better person. We been having problems we been together for almost four years.I texted him after a week of not calling me and he says he loves me and misses me but says staying apart is the ...

He wont tell me he loves me, but I know he does

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29 November 2009 (F) - my question is i am friends with this man who has been a friend for 30 plus years. we tried to date two times in the pass, but i always went the other way. now he and i has become really close this time and i am really into him. we have a sexual ...

She trusts me but wont say she loves me

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29 November 2009 (M) - well i dont really know where to start. I'm 17 years old, she is 18 years old, we started out friends, then good friends, then two weeks before the end of school last year i finally grabbed her hand and kissed her like 10 minutes later lol. now 6 ...

I feel my love is fading while my boyfriend is away

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29 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 years, going to be moving in together in about 6months, which I'm excited about, but sometimes I get nervous about my relationship because my bf seems so certain that I am his future, he sees it ...

I want to be friends with my married lovers step son

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29 November 2009 (F) - i`m a widow of almost 10 months i have been seeing a married man for about 4 months we have kept a low profile as far as his family is concerned, (no small children)now he is telling me he loves me and i believe him, he also states his wife is ...

I have had two broken dates, and now I think a brush off

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29 November 2009 (F) - Hi there, ok so about a month ago I had a relationship breakup. I am fine with it because the guy was treating me like crap. Well there was a guy (I'll call him J) that him and I were both friends with throughout the time we were together. My ex ...

he doesn't trust me, if he cheats on me, how do I move on?

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29 November 2009 (F) - If he cheated on me, how do I move on? Ok, this is my first relationship ever, and we have been together for 3 years, 3 months, exactly. And well, he has issues with my past because he knows a couple of guys I made out with (I was a virgin until I...

My younger lover blows hot and cold

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29 November 2009 (F) - i recently started dating a guy that is 14 years younger than me. he claims to have always dated older women which after careful thinking i was very interested in him. but now after great everything he wants to keep me around but not be in a ...

My boyfriend wont sleep with me, but keeps me dangling.

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29 November 2009 (F) - I am good at giving advice to others but when it comes to myself; I am useless. Anyway my problem isn't a complicated one but does need insightful advice. I've been with my partner for four months but have known him as a friend for two years an...

My boyfriend has kept his online dating profile, is he cheating?

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29 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and its going really great though he used to have an internet dating profile which he told me about but he still uses it. He says he doesnt go to pick up girls but just to check out the 'scene' to ...

Why do I think the grass might be greener on the other side of the fence?

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29 November 2009 (M) - I have a loving girlfriend of many years. She goes out of her way to treat me great and always does nice things for me. But lately, I am extremely enticed by some of the other women I randomly interact with. What is wrong with me?...

I want marriage but he wont be threatened into it

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29 November 2009 (F) - I realised i have been pressurizing my bf for marriage from the second month of our relationship partly because i thought that would work. i also tried being a doormat (cooking, cleaning, washing and trying to be a wife)in order to make him realise ...

She says one thing, he says another, who do I believe?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 29 years old woman, divorced with 2 kids. I met this guy almost 3 years ago and after 2 years he confessed me that he was still seeing his exgirlfriend behind my back. He accepted he was wrong and promised to change everythi...

He wants space but wants me to wait. What should I do?

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29 November 2009 (M) - Hello, I am writing again to ask advice from anyone who can help me. a couple of weeks ago I broke up with my partner, of 12months. He was having a lot of problems with minor depression and drinking, and was honest enough to say I can do this. I...

So why did he do this? Why was he involved in these sex sites, and connecting to women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for three and a half years now. My man was a very moody person, but I, being passive, could usually take it. Like every other couple, we had our ups and downs. A year ago as I went to use his computer, I saw that he ...

My boyfriend is so jealous of my best friend!

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29 November 2009 (F) - Please help... i really don't know what to do... I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and a half now, and so far, we've never had any major problem. But there's one problem i can't solve. I have a best friend (a guy, by the way)and my bf is ...

Hair pulled out of head...I never needed advice more in my life as I do now. Whats your thought on this?

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29 November 2009 (M) - Hey guys, Background first of all, I'm in a relationship that is requiring a lot of work to keep going. I love Sarah to bits but its really hard to make us work. We are together for more than 2 years. We took breaks(not seeing other people) a ...

I'm in love with someone who hates me to death!

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29 November 2009 (F) - So, I'm a young woman, and I'm extremely in love with someone who hates me to death. I want him dearly, and want him to be happy, but all seems impossible. How can I move on or fix this?...