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Archived questions from: 9 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

We're like soulmates but she is quite insecure. How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - well this is long so i'll make it as short as i can!! i'm 26 and have been best friends with a girl of the same age for 10 years. We have always done everything together (excluding physical) and see each other several times a week and are in ...

My friends gang up on me! What have I done to deserve all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Ok, i have so many problems right now and i feel so stressed. Firstly a few months ago i fell out with my 3 best friends because they never involved me in anything they did and 'ganged' up on me all the time, one of them was even meant to be going ...

Advice needed! Can our marriage be saved?

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9 November 2009 (F) - I met and fell in love with a man 15 years younger, I was married at that time, but unhappy, i also had 6 children under the age of 21. I eventually divorced and lived and ended up marrying my much younger man. We have been together for 20 years, he ...

How to solve size incompatibility?

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9 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for more than 2 years and our sex has never been too great if we compare to our past relations. The problem is that my vagina is "too large" and his penis is "too small". I tried to do Kegel exercises but after 6 months...

Have I been expecting too much from my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

9 November 2009 (?) - I'm not sure about what to do with my friends. My one friendship with my friend, "Maggie," seems off and on. When I was in grad school, she never really was there to listen to me when I had a bad day or needed someone to talk to. She didn't get ...

Remaining friends with the other woman...

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9 November 2009 (M) - I had an emotional affair for nine months (no sex). I finally settled everything with the other woman and came clean to my girlfriend. I'm proud of how I handled it, though not proud it happened. The other woman and I parted on good terms, as ...

I want my husband back and for us to be a family again...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Here's my story I will try to make cut it short. My husband left us (me and our 2 kids) 8 weeks ago. He said he didn't know how he felt about me any more; he felt that I was controlling and he felt tied. The second week into our seperation I...

Should I remain married if I am still in love with my first love?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - I am married to my wife of 13 years. I recently found out that my first fiance was forced to break up with me by our mothers because she'd gotten pregnant. They forced her to hide this and she lost the baby 5 months later. She hid this from me for ...

My husband has changed - he doesn't share his feelings with me anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Dear ppl, I need help here,bI’m 30 and my husband is 40 years of age and we both have one boy 12, and girl 6, every since my daughter 2nd birthday I saw his changes he doesn’t share happiness , sadness or any other things bothering him that’s ...

He wants a threesome with a woman I don't feel comfortable including! He's making me feel guilty!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i participate in swing lifesome. We are not regulars but we have had 3 FFM, 3somes, Attempted about 8 MFM 3somes, not all sucessful, only to out of the 3 MFM have been successful, not all was done in them but some things happened ...

I am afraid to marry her, yet also afraid to flush 5 years of my life down the toilet.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - I will try to be brief. I have been dating my girl friend for almost 5 years, 4.5 of which she has lived with me. We've gone through many ups and downs as all relationships do, but more and more I dread the thought of spending my life with her as a ...

Is my wife is cheating on me.... again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - recently my wife went back to school and the first couple weeks she called me and wanted me to bring her lunch if I could, but the last couple weeks she ignores me all day and says she is too busy and tells me not to come up with lunch. She has also...

Why did my boyfriend change his mind about moving in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I live in a home where my needs are not met, and I'm stuck here until I can get on my feet. My boyfriend wants to help because my living situation endangers my life at times. We made plans that in a couple months we'll save money to get an apartm...

Does he actually love me or what? And why does he stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I don't get my boyfriend. We have been together for 3 years. I love him deeply, even though we have issues. Mostly because he dislikes my past and because I lied about it in the beginning of the relationship, but immediately afterwards (like two ...

I've lost respect for her seen as she barely even looks for work! I want to help her but I don't want to miss out on fun experiences in life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - So I have this girlfriend. We've been "together" for about 5 months but only spent a about 7 weekends together. She's so sweet and captured my heart big time. She lives a southwest airlines flight away from me. She doesn't have a job, barely looks ...

My bf has withdrawn emotionally, now that I'm pregnant! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Bf used to spoil me at the start of the relationship -used to give me gifts etc - then I have now fallen pregnant - am half way through - its been on and off for the whole 20 wks so far, however he started to withdraw emotionally etc. I asked him ...

He told me he was a "sick man" and now I havent heard from him in a month, what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I have been talking to this man for 6 months. We both fell in love with each other. One night, we were texting each other...it was the only way at the time because of his job. Everything was going well. Then at the end, he said, "I'm a sick man". I ...

Gay unrequited love within a 'relationship'

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9 November 2009 (M) - Hello, I'm a 46 year old gay guy and I have become stuck in a situation and seek advice... I got to know a guy 3 years younger than me around 3 years ago, we met and had safe casual sex and a friendship developed, during the first couple of months...

She used to be lesbian before me, do you think she is cheating with her so called "friends"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - Alright, here it goes. Ive been with my girlfriend for a year and a half now. We met when we both worked at Starbucks. When i first met her she was, according to her, completely lesbian; keep in mind. We're from Orlando, fl. and she had to move to ...

He still hasn't put a ring on my finger after 6 years, should I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend 6 years he has cheated in the past and we are now past that we have had no problems with it he says he wants me in his life and cant see me out of his world but he hasn't but a ring on my finger. and he hates talking ...

Did he just hook up with me to boost my self-esteem or does he really have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I started working at a nearby resort when I was 16 and instantly started to crush on one single manager.. We have always been able to talk and get along great. He is twice my age though and has a kid half my age. I am now 19 and he 39 and I've b...

Why would someone say all of those things and then just sort of disappear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - This guy and I dated for a few months, then he moved away, and we decided to be "just friends." I am fine with that. We had become very close in a short period of time, and we have a very special friendship, or so I thought (not FWB, if that's what ...

Do you think he really loves me?

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9 November 2009 (F) - i hv bf for 4 months wer both married we go on dating i am confused f he really lovs me bec during our date he nver spend even single cents and if i ddnt tx him he dont hv the initiatve to tx me woud u think he really loves me the way he did but he ...

My friend's boyfriend keeps hurting her over and over, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Hey! Alright, so my friend (F) has a boyfriend, his name is A. A is the worst boyfriend on planet worst boyfriend. No joke. He flirts with other girls ALL THE TIME, either online or in person. He even flirted with me a couple times, intul I ...

My Ex Bf is sending mixed signals, what should I do?

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9 November 2009 (F) - this is going to be a little long so please bear with me, My ex-Bf's older than me, I've always been attracted to older men, but he's been married once, has a daughter by the woman he married and has a son by a girl he just dated for a few years, ...

Is asking for a 'break' the same as breaking up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - i need advice. been dating my boyfriend for 15 months long distance. we saw each other once every month for an extended weekend and had several week long visits. i have met practically his whole extended fam, one of the week-long visits was with ...

I'm shy. Does she think I'm ont interested? Should I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - There is this really pretty girl that I like at church. She and I are both freshmen in college, but go to different universities in the same city. I'm pretty sure she likes me back because I catch her looking at me many times, and when I make eye ...

She's telling me to move on. Does she mean it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5286 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - Ok she told me she likes me and she's attracted to me and I think she seems . Suddenly the next day she is saying we should keep distance because she thinks we might not get together. She has a bf of 4 years but she has initiated to brake up with ...

Husband seems close to his female colleague. Should I speak up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - My husband is friends with a female coworker and lately it has been making me feel uneasy. My husband and his female coworker started working in the same building about 8 months ago. Prior to that they worked for the same company, but in cities t...